"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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article: One in 10 Women in Norway Raped

MatureDJ

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http://www.thedailybeast.com/cheats/2011/10/25/one-in-10-women-in-norway-raped.html

Is this a case of the Viking alpha male coming to terms with the rise of the matriarchy?

Of course, this number is a but suspect as it states that most of the abuse happens in the home - so I suppose that if Mr. Viking wants some, but Mrs. Viking doesn't want to give it up, Mr. Viking just takes it, and it's called rape, even if Mrs. Viking doesn't report it and stays married ... :rolleyes:
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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nordic girls can be very frigid and controlling at home...it wasn't a surprise that tiger woods had to get some on the side after the kids were born.

Incredibly hot until about 31..then a coldness enters their spirit.
 

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Are you kidding me? Dig into it and you'll discover that these numbers are not exceptional at all, in ANY Western country.

It's a fact we don't hear about much, but the statistics for sexual abuse are much, much, muuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuch higher than we'd like to think. Furthermore, it has nothing to do with the high gender-equality coz the numbers were the same 50 years ago.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Done with the same research method that brought us the well known 1-in-4 college women in America have been raped, no doubt.
 

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Rape is often just a revenge of hurt ego. Most of the times it is committed by orbiters and such. And yes often times it goes unreported. Often times the girls just grind their teeth....the "guy" often even doesn't know he is doing something against her will. 'Girl's NO, is just a slvt defense' reasoning.

Rapes committed by some stranger (in a park etc.) are not that common.

I guess Viking mentality has nothing to do with high(?) rape rates....quite the opposite. Northern Europe guys are very much under a whip (AFC) compared to rest of Europe so I guess the Frustration is the main motive.

Actually my ancestors were Swedish mercenaries raping their way through the whole Europe during 30year war, heh. And I don't feel the urges to go on raping rampage....it is much easier just to do it properly.....no scratching, crying, tearing of clothes and such.

This being about 'spousal rape'....I guess the "husband's" frustration plays some role as in orbiter's example.
It is quite funny....True DJ would never do such thing. Feminized 'equality' guys...formed to not rape...are much worse. You can see how artificial conditioning backfires. Don't get me wrong I have no excuses for those guys....even if their wife is supreme b1tch and they were socially frustrated and conditioned all their lives. We got out if it, they could too.
 

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I dont buy it. I dont think it's any worse than other democratic highly civilized countries. Take any stats you read in an online mag with a grain of salt.

Also keep in mind that women---as a group---always need something to b!tch about. They arent getting this, they arent getting that. They truly are never satisfied. If you dont believe me go work in any office that has predominantly female staff. All they do is b!tch about what others arent doing.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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This might not be to popular opinion, but I think the term "rape" is highly subjective. By legal definition, I may have "raped" several women. Of course, this statement may raise eye brows, but once I clarify, you'll probably be able to see where im coming from.

High school sex? May be rape.

As a senior in high school (17-18 years old), if you sleep with a freshman (13-14 years old), you may have committed statutory rape. Situations like this... happen a lot. This isnt only a case of older males and younger women. I actually dated a senior chick as a freshman in high school. If we did hypothetically have sex, she would have "raped me".

Ever have sex with a drunk? You raped them.

If someone doesnt have the metal capacity to know what they're saying because they're drunk, whatever they say isnt legally binding. It doesnt matter if he/she says yes, no, or nothing at all.

Ever have to "convince" someone to have sex? You may have raped them.

If someone originally says no, but after some nonphysical and nonthreatening behavior they change their mind, you may have commited rape--if they change their mind after the fact.



See, the problem I see with these "80%" numbers is that the crimes dont go unreported and the degree of rape varies between innocent, horny teenages, to guys wearing ski masks, jumping out of trees on dark streets ambushing women walking home from the night shift.

Once women realize they can claim rape on practically everything, they often do, after the fact, to rationalize their behavior. We all know thats a general rule about women and their impulsiveness.

What do I have to back up that claim? 10% conviction rate.

A lot of these cases are going to be "he said" vs. "she said" cases. Like any crime, no solid evidence means no solid case. Sure, many of these crimes may take place with only two people present, but thats no excuse for a complete lack of evidence.


Rape claims are used like discrimination/racism claims these days. It's a trump card. They say 80% goes unreported? I say 79% of those claims are B.S anyway. It's unfortunate that "real rape" and "real hate crimes" actually happen, but they clutter up the court with these half-assed cases and then make like its the society, religion, or all male jurors that are the problem.
 

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Every woman with whom I have become really intimate has been either molested as a child or raped as an adult. It is horrifically commonplace in the US.
 

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It is a sad truth but often times when a woman talks of being 'raped' she is merely seeking attention.

I don't believe rape, as in forced penetration is nearly as common as women would like us to believe.

I do believe that women don't like men THEY DON'T FIND ATTRACTIVE TO LOOK AT THEM...that is rape in their mind. A girl will term a slobbering kiss advance by a drunk urkel at a crowded nightclub 'rape'.

Once a girl thinks of you as unattractive, any sexual advance including talk will be termed rape. But if Tom Brady did the same thing...well :) unless of course she is gold digging.

Cue white knights on....three
 

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Die Hard said:
Are you kidding me? Dig into it and you'll discover that these numbers are not exceptional at all, in ANY Western country.

It's a fact we don't hear about much, but the statistics for sexual abuse are much, much, muuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuch higher than we'd like to think. Furthermore, it has nothing to do with the high gender-equality coz the numbers were the same 50 years ago.
^^^^Agreed with what he said.

The male species is whacked.

The church issue might have died down, many of us knew that it would, including the prosecutors whose goal it was to put them in jail. But the prosecutors know that they barely scratched the surface of the pedophilia that takes place in churches around the world, including U.S. churches. When I look at a church I sometimes think of it as a pedophile factory. Because like the prosecutors who prosecuted the case just a few years ago, many of us know that they will never root all the pedophiles out of the Catholic church.

I live in San Diego, just a few minutes from the Mexican/U.S. border. Word is that if you're a Mexican female who is trying to get across the border illegally, you will be raped. You can think of it as an "automatic rape." There are reasons for this circumstance being in place. But I'm not writing an article. Suffice to say that

the male species is messed up.
 
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