MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
article: Men and women who bare more flesh are regarded as less intelligent
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
5string
Master Don Juan
I guess I'd better quit wearing my Speedo.
I have had this happen to me. Is it my fault that I am genetically gifted? Nope. My body is naturally thin thanks to my metabolism and I gain muscle easily. But I work damn hard on the stationary bike and in muscle training, so why not show off my hard work?
When people start patronizing me I usually end up talking circles around them and they cant keep up in intellectual convos or debates with me. I guess they expect an in shape black dude to be your typical dumb athlete who plays football or basketball. I fancy myself a footballer (soccer player) tho =D. Cant judge a book by its cover, however stereotypes do hold true in some cases, not all.
To sum it all up:
http://wcsa10.files.wordpress.com/2010/06/hatersgonnahate.jpg
^This basically.
When people start patronizing me I usually end up talking circles around them and they cant keep up in intellectual convos or debates with me. I guess they expect an in shape black dude to be your typical dumb athlete who plays football or basketball. I fancy myself a footballer (soccer player) tho =D. Cant judge a book by its cover, however stereotypes do hold true in some cases, not all.
To sum it all up:
http://wcsa10.files.wordpress.com/2010/06/hatersgonnahate.jpg
^This basically.