"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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article: Ladies: You Can Make Over $40,000 a Year Being an “Internet Girlfriend”

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CEO Brian Gross founded MyGirlFund six years ago. He told BusinessInsider, “Guys send girls money whether it’s for content or simply to be a nice, generous guy. Some guys want to feel important to these girls… We’ve heard of them helping pay for things from tuition to speeding tickets.” With about 8,200 women and 15,000 new men who sign up each month, they buy credits for a dollar each to exchange on the site. Because there are so many more men joining the site than there are women, female users take to marketing themselves to men who will pay- one anonymous user claimed she makes $40,000 to $55,000 a year “working” full-time on the site. It’s an interesting experiment with a monetized social network.
my opinion: This isn't Beta behavior; it's Gamma behavior. :down:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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my opinion: This isn't Beta behavior; it's Gamma behavior. :down:
They are teenage boys trapped in adult bodies.:p
 

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I looked at the site, and on a brief look, it does look like a type of prostitution (women are lewd, sexually suggestive titles, etc...), but haven't checked the prices. Looks like some serious softcore prostitution. Haven't checked out the prices for any individual girls on there and don't have the appetite to investigate further.

However, I don't think this is a new thing. If you want to pay for some skype session with a prostitute, or someone to get nude infront of a computer camera then I think that has always been around.

But hey, if online dating is that bad for "average joe, non-chad" guys this is not a surprize.
 
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my opinion: This isn't Beta behavior; it's Gamma behavior. :down:
This now makes the women the creepy trolls trolling men.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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