"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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Article: Is Fructose All to Blame for Obesity?

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All sugars are capable of enhancing fat storage in the body. Often those of us into a fitness lifestyle choose to eat fruit a lot to staunch sugar cravings: Do not fool yourself into thinking that you can eat tons of fruit and not see the effects noted in the article.

40,000 years ago humans coming across fruit in late summer and fall enhanced survival helping them deposit fats for winter. Now we do not need that adaptation and it works against us all year long.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Fructose is broken down by the liver. If you get too much fructose at once, the excess gets deposited as fat inside your live. Over time this will lead to fatty liver disease and obesity does correlate directly with that. So yes.

Sucrose (aka table sugar) is half glucose and half fructose. Your best bet is just to avoid sugar where possible so that you're not overdosing on sugar at any given time.
 

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All sugars are capable of enhancing fat storage in the body. Often those of us into a fitness lifestyle choose to eat fruit a lot to staunch sugar cravings: Do not fool yourself into thinking that you can eat tons of fruit and not see the effects noted in the article.
Not accurate. You are not going to get T2D / metabolic disease eating fruit. There is too much fiber and water. You’d have to consume so much to the point that it is impractical. Fruit =/= high fructose corn syrup. Not the same!
 

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Not accurate. You are not going to get T2D / metabolic disease eating fruit. There is too much fiber and water. You’d have to consume so much to the point that it is impractical. Fruit =/= high fructose corn syrup. Not the same!
Read the research. For crying out loud HFCS is why most of the population is obese.
 

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Read the research. For crying out loud HFCS is why most of the population is obese.
HFCS, Trans fats, processed garbage, etc...

It all works together.

At the end of the day if people stuck to eating one ingredient foods 90% of the time and not drinking sugary drinks they would have 0 issues.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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over consumption of calories per day, lack of physical activity, and un used energy is what contributes to obesity.
 

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I agree. However, the comment referenced implies this is an issue with fruit. Fruit is not causing obesity.
Right. I eat fruit daily and I ate three to four servings per day in the preparation for getting in the condition in my photo here, including dried fruit.
 
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