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article: Is 25 The New ‘Invisible Age’?

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Buying a drink for a woman can be a good thing if you’ve already attracted her and established rapport.

If you buy a drink for yourself, you just nonchalantly ask her what she wants and get her one as well.

The thing is, you can’t be doing it if your attitude is “I’m buying her a drink so she’ll have sex with me in exchange”

Instead, your attitude is that you’re having a good time with her, and you’re providing value as the man in the relationship.
Agreed.
 

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Buying a drink for a woman can be a good thing if you’ve already attracted her and established rapport.

If you buy a drink for yourself, you just nonchalantly ask her what she wants and get her one as well.

The thing is, you can’t be doing it if your attitude is “I’m buying her a drink so she’ll have sex with me in exchange”

Instead, your attitude is that you’re having a good time with her, and you’re providing value as the man in the relationship.
still, nope, now its not us who should show value its then, why I would spend on a drink on a girl I don't even know, and with most likely will be a bitchy and not even talk with you right? waste of time and money. good thing is looks like most guys now are at least letting then feel older sooner, kinda funny, the article is funny, a lot of stupid pre conception asking for where is the mens, well sweatheart, you pretty much killed then or made then see you are not worth, since you are all girl power now go on and show then you are diferent
 

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Buying a drink for a woman can be a good thing if you’ve already attracted her and established rapport.

If you buy a drink for yourself, you just nonchalantly ask her what she wants and get her one as well.

The thing is, you can’t be doing it if your attitude is “I’m buying her a drink so she’ll have sex with me in exchange”

Instead, your attitude is that you’re having a good time with her, and you’re providing value as the man in the relationship.
Even if it's not initially sex you don't buy her a drink to say "let me buy he a drink to show her I have class and I'm a great dude". That game has been compromised.
 

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Even if it's not initially sex you don't buy her a drink to say "let me buy he a drink to show her I have class and I'm a great dude". That game has been compromised.
When I buy her a drink, it's because I want a drink and I want her to have one too, and I don't want to negotiate payment terms over a simple drink. It's a buzzkill.
 

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When I buy her a drink, it's because I want a drink and I want her to have one too, and I don't want to negotiate payment terms over a simple drink. It's a buzzkill.
Buy a uninterested babe a drink? I wouldn't do it unless she already likes me. It's not done to barter for sex. But I'm not into supporting freeloaders.
 

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These dumb cvnts seemingly only think about two things: their next pair of shoes and how to weasel a free drink from the first man they see in a room. Even old b1tches are trying to weasel free drinks from me these days.

They sidle up next to me at the bar just as I'm ordering, hoping for a handout. Or, they'll ask me "what beer is good here?" These aren't even women I know, just random hors.

With each passing day, these cvnts are getting more and more brazen. Pretty soon they're just going to flat out start robbing men on the street.
Well they have been jacking dudes.
 
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