article: Inside the world of cuckolding: a cuckold explains all - Their marriage has never been stronger

[MatureDJ]

The men who enjoy their wives sleeping with other men

Their marriage has never been stronger

www.independent.co.uk

“It started as a fantasy, just thinking my wife might sleep with other men.”

But for Will Cornudo*, that fantasy has become a reality.

Cornudo is a cuckold: he enjoys his wife sleeping with other men.

my opinion: The only reasonable explanation I can come up with is that such a cuck must get the validation of other men finding his wife sexually desirable for him to think of his wife as desirable. I would imagine that most of these cucks' wives are fat.

 

[samspade]

The men who enjoy their wives sleeping with other men

Their marriage has never been stronger

www.independent.co.uk

my opinion: The only reasonable explanation I can come up with is that such a cuck must get the validation of other men finding his wife sexually desirable for him to think of his wife as desirable. I would imagine that most of these cucks' wives are fat.

I think you're onto something. Most men like knowing their wives are desirable. But it's a huge line to cross from her being ogled to her being fukked, and I think it's because of a self-esteem shortage. I can't diagnose it. Maybe it's from watching porn. Maybe they just haven't had enough pump and dump types they didn't care about.

Anyway, I didn't read the article...I'm sure he believes it's all hunky dory but in 5 years? Hopefully they'll do a follow up.

 

[Hal9000]

I've seen alot of this in the Ls and its usually guys who are out of shape and/or have tiny penises. I was the bull for dozens of couples and in every one of them the wife was much more attractive than the hubby. I think there's a fantasy element but there's also an insecurity element where the guy probably thinks he needs to do this or his "hotwife" will either run around, or leave, him. Most of the guys did seem to be enjoying jerking off in the corner though.

 

[Mike32ct]

The men who enjoy their wives sleeping with other men

Their marriage has never been stronger

www.independent.co.uk

my opinion: The only reasonable explanation I can come up with is that such a cuck must get the validation of other men finding his wife sexually desirable for him to think of his wife as desirable. I would imagine that most of these cucks' wives are fat.

Or maybe wifey is better looking than him (i.e. he is punching above his weight as a BB). And one way to keep her and avoid divorce is allow her to bhang better looking guys.

And he’s a perv who went from watching porn to “live” stuff at home.

 

[thinker]

I read the article and like other cucks he doesn't get to have any action on the side. I think these guys know that they are not going to be able to keep their wives from cheating and eventually leaving them and this becomes a way to keep her. These guys have self esteem issues and rather than deal with them this is an easy way out. The wives have no problems with this because it takes care of the alpha ****s / beta bucks need. these guys from what I can tell are very submissive (weak), physically unattractive , and have very small ****s. They have no real power in their relationship, if they did then instead of straight out cucks they would be swingers and at least get some action on the side.

 

[Serenity]

I read the article and like other cucks he doesn't get to have any action on the side. I think these guys know that they are not going to be able to keep their wives from cheating and eventually leaving them and this becomes a way to keep her. These guys have self esteem issues and rather than deal with them this is an easy way out. The wives have no problems with this because it takes care of the alpha ****s / beta bucks need. these guys from what I can tell are very submissive (weak), physically unattractive , and have very small ****s. They have no real power in their relationship, if they did then instead of straight out cucks they would be swingers and at least get some action on the side.

I don't think it comes from the psychological issues you and apparently others think it is. I think these guys actually get massively turned on by this, they don't care about getting any action on the side themselves, that doesn't turn them on. I think one aspect which is super typical of any fetish and very relevant here is the thought of doing something way outside of the norm.

I don't think at all he's doing it to keep her. Everyone just wins, she gets as much d!ck as she wants and the more d!ck she wants the more opportunities the cuck has to live out his fantasy. If anything a cuckold is selfishly motivated.

This forum presents a very, very, very narrow range of ways to live life. There are a fvckton more functional ways to live, but many are too narrow-minded to truly understand it.

 

[thinker]

@Grewd I don't know of any man outside of cucks that doesn't wan't more variety when it comes to sexual partners, it is an evolved drive in us all. I can understand the swinger thing. The guy also gets extra action and the variety men desire and it is open and honest with no deception. I don't doubt that the cucks get off on this, I just don't think it is psychologically normal. These guys often times don't just have their wives banged by other men, they also wear cages on their ****s that prevent them from being able to jerk off so that the wives can control their sexual release. They also perform sex acts on the bulls. That doesn't sound to me like a healthy man.

 

[GrowingPains]

This is BEYOND me.

Even the idea of a mfer in the corner jerking off to me banging his wife would turn me off. I'd probably make him wait outside lmao.

 

[Serenity]

@Grewd I don't know of any man outside of cucks that doesn't wan't more variety when it comes to sexual partners, it is an evolved drive in us all. I can understand the swinger thing. The guy also gets extra action and the variety men desire and it is open and honest with no deception. I don't doubt that the cucks get off on this, I just don't think it is psychologically normal. These guys often times don't just have their wives banged by other men, they also wear cages on their ****s that prevent them from being able to jerk off so that the wives can control their sexual release. They also perform sex acts on the bulls. That doesn't sound to me like a healthy man.

Doesn't sound directly unhealthy either as long as it's consensual, which it ultimately is. They can take their power at any moment they want, but they simply don't want that. I can't disagree with this not being normal, it certainly isn't normal, I don't have an issue with other people doing bizarre stuff.

I'd say this sort of arrangement is very honest. The apparent deception is a part of the game, so technically it isn't really deception. I'd argue that it requires greater level of trust than ordinary relationship, there's a much much higher risk she could branch swing.

If any man turns into a cuckold primarily to keep his wife, then sure I do agree it's not healthy mainly because he doesn't genuinely want that. For a true cuckold this doesn't appear to be the case, their motivation is entirely different.

Many men enjoy playing submissive roles, a cuck is just on the extreme end of it. Evidently that evolved drive you talk about isn't in everyone.

If they want to do this I'll leave them to it, even though it's not for me though.

 

[zekko]

Many men enjoy playing submissive roles, a cuck is just on the extreme end of it.

Yeah, there are probably different reasons for wanting to be cucked, but I think probably the main driving force behind the fetish is that they enjoy being humiliated. As for it making the marriage stronger, it sounds kind of like the housewives back in the 50s who used to rationalize their husbands having mistresses because "that's just the way men are". Now it appears we have husbands sitting at home while their wives are having sex with other men. We live in strange times.

 

[Hal9000]

Some of the couples I played with incorporated a lot of humiliation into our interactions. Lots of trash talking by the wife to hubby about his small penis or whatever. They also enjoy making the hubby "clean them up" afterwards, if you know what I mean. However, there were others that never got into anything like that and it was basically a voyeuristic type of thing where hubby just watched or filmed us going at it. There's a huge spectrum in between as well so its pretty hard to come up with a "one size fits all" explanation of this kind of thing.

 

[Who Dares Win]

I dont know, personally I dont have any sexual fantasy that doesnt involve me having sex...cant really see what they find as a turn on to see others to have sex.

I would accept my wife having sex with other men only if she is no longer attractive to me and Im ****ing other women too and this prevents problems to my wallet or to our kids.

Anyway as usual as long as what they do happens among willing adults and doesnt require my assistance and my money, they are free to do whatever they want.

 

[zekko]

However, there were others that never got into anything like that and it was basically a voyeuristic type of thing where hubby just watched or filmed us going at it.

Yeah, he might have a fantasy of seeing his wife in porn or something. I don't know, either way definitely not for me.

 

[backseatjuan]

I’m sorry reading the title has made me giggle. Lul