article: Inside an OnlyFans empire: Intercourse, affect and the brand new American Dream

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Since sending her first photograph in 2021, Adams’s OnlyFans accounts have earned $16.5 million in gross sales, greater than 1.4 million followers and greater than 11 million “likes.” She now makes about $30,000 a day — greater than most American small companies — from subscriptions, video gross sales, messages and suggestions, half of which is pure revenue.
Adams’s group sees its enterprise as one in all innocent, destigmatized gratification, wherein either side get what they need. The patrons are swiped over in courting apps, widowed, divorced or bored, desirous to pay for the phantasm of intimacy with an in any other case unattainable match.
 

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Not sure it is quite destigmatized yet. As of recent, using an escort has been destigmatized. Perhaps this will follow soon
 

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Not sure it is quite destigmatized yet. As of recent, using an escort has been destigmatized. Perhaps this will follow soon
Im not sure its destigmatized either. Its always been frowned upon, even by SoSuave posters; some even will proudly claim "I´ve never paid for it" or some variant of that
 

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Im not sure its destigmatized either. Its always been frowned upon, even by SoSuave posters; some even will proudly claim "I´ve never paid for it" or some variant of that
It is destigmatized. Some people may say "I've never paid for it", but they will also say under the same breath "but I don't judge anyone who might" and generally have a tolerant and non-judgmental attitude towards those who do go there. Some posters even going as far as to say that they count in terms of notch-counts. If you look at @SW15 attitude and even others, they are now viewing escort visits as valid notch-counts and that would have been something UNTHINKABLE in the 00s version of this board. People are just seeing it as a fact of life that guys who don't want to deal with the drama, BS or skewed dating market but who just want to meet a basic need (in their minds, not mine) not much different to eating, drinking or sleeping (ie again this is a position that I'm strongly opposed to. For example, when I used an escort back in December, 2014, I was UNABLE to actually eat, sleep or drink properly because of the PTSD type trauma involved being with such a lady that I have never used on again since).

On the other hand, there has been nothing positive mentioned with guys who use OnlyFans. In relationship to escorts, OnlyFans is very much highly stigmatized on here with people nosing into content creators and how much they are making, etc.... and view it as a simping.
However, I guess over time, and a new bunch of posters on here, even that too will eventually be desgimatized as well. You are already seeing the writing on the wall when dating apps start losing male subscribers and losing business and a good number of them are just flocking to OnlyFans instead.
 
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Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.

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