article: I'm 58, Divorced, and Dating Again, but Women Just Seem to Care About the Size of My Bank Account

[MatureDJ]

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[BaronOfHair]

Brings us back to a point made here https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/im-29-what-attracts-women-now.284752/page-2#post-3170931 , and likely elsewhere

Once a man is out of his TWENTIES, he gets judged on things like his financial hardiness and social status. Not just by women, but damned near EVERYONE... Be prepared for even the staff at CVS to not receive you warmly, if you look and move through the world like a hobo, rather than a high-powered executive or The Gulf Cartel's latest kingpin

No amount of us protesting or whinging about this on social media(I.E. What MGTOWs mistake for "fun")will ever change that

 

[justaroundthecorner]

DJ tricks works best when you are 18-27 tops when they allow you to land anything above your own looks level.

If you do land anything above your looks level, it also means that you are at least above average both in status and money department.

Reason: after male is past 27 years old, "opponent" experience kicks in (best looking women already have seen it all or are simply taken) and a lot of competitors use assets to sway woman's interest:
- "sure you have a boyfriend... so have I told you about my apartment? No, not the one I live in - the one tourists rent from me via Booking"
- "I feel for your boyfriend, looking for a job for such a long time is truly a mess... thankfully, it never happened to me and I am doing great right now, being steadily promoted almost every year."
- "Nah, this Porsche is not my daily, I have BMW for that. I use Porsche only on the weekends. For example I love this particularly beautiful road, right near X which I think is is just few miles from your place..."

 

[BaronOfHair]

DJ tricks works best when you are 18-27 tops when they allow you to land anything above your own looks level.

If you do land anything above your looks level, it also means that you are at least above average both in status and money department.

Reason: after male is past 27 years old, "opponent" experience kicks in (best looking women already have seen it all or are simply taken) and a lot of competitors use assets to sway woman's interest:
- "sure you have a boyfriend... so have I told you about my apartment? No, not the one I live in - the one tourists rent from me via Booking"
- "I feel for your boyfriend, looking for a job for such a long time is truly a mess... thankfully, it never happened to me and I am doing great right now, being steadily promoted almost every year."
- "Nah, this Porsche is not my daily, I have BMW for that. I use Porsche only on the weekends. For example I love this particularly beautiful road, right near X which I think is is just few miles from your place..."

Much of this boils down to fundamental biology/human psychology:

-A woman's attractiveness is based primairly on displaying signs of high fertility and being an enegetic sexual partner. Thus, everyone from Wall Street to the guys hanging out on the corner roll out the proverbial red carpet for beautiful young girls, who seem like they'd be incredible in the sack

-A man's attractiveness stems primarily from exhibiting high social status/access to resources and at least giving THE APPEARANCE that he can handle himself, both in the bedroom and life more generally. A guy who's not necessarily the best looking, yet has moved up in the world + appears to put effort into himself receives far more accommodation than the broke 19 year old who just happens to be male model handsome, and stopped exercising the minute his HS football career fizzled out

The WORLD judges women and men alike by this metric, not just potential sexual partners, thus older women who's beauty is going down the sh-t-er more rapidly than Ethan Klein's career post-2019 find themselves discarded, while young men who have nothing to offer aside from a pretty face end up being literal cannon fodder

It's not for naught that fellas going into the armed forces are counseled to acquire some sort of skill that makes them invaluable to Uncle Sam, UNLESS their idea of fun = Being sent into the front lines first

 

[DJ Novice]

I’m 58.

If you are not financially secure by that age you have little hope of sleeping with younger and/or attractive women.

I have found most women 45 and over are either just parasites looking for you to financially subsidise their lifestyle or are completely delusional about what they want from you.

As long as you recognise this and don’t catch feelings or oneitis you will be ok. The sex and relationship may be mainly transactional but who cares. I don’t.

 

[plumber]

if they only care about the bank account, then just make sure to have a big one. problems solved.

 

[Westminster]

Not really because their goal will be emptying it.