“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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article: I decided to embark on a total dating detox

MatureDJ

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Chick wants to take a "break" from dating, giving out "excuses" for disqualifying men after a first date.

https://nypost.com/2018/05/31/i-decided-to-embark-on-a-total-dating-detox

You could argue that I’d been disqualifying plenty of men in New York even after a first date for arguably trivial reasons:

  • for licking his fingers after we ordered yucca fries (both hands, multiple times)
  • for repeatedly calling me by the wrong name (Natalie)
  • for not knowing where Addis Ababa is
  • for eating meat off a stick
  • for carrying a large wad of one-dollar bills in his pocket
  • for being my height (5′2″)
  • for having a face slightly paralyzed by Botox
  • for not having heard of burrata
  • for wearing a beanie at dinner
  • for having a visible herpes simplex virus breakout on his lip
  • for snorting coke in the bathroom between courses
  • for wearing a tooth around his neck
  • for being on Atkins
  • for reviewing the bill like he was studying for the bar exam
  • for not having eyelashes
  • for wearing raspberry-colored trousers
  • for asking me for a blow-job
  • for telling me he dreams of a Range Rover full of offspring.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Got one better for ya. Same "author" - Seems everyone and anyone can be an author these days.

My failed attempts at online dating drove me to marry myself (and it's a hot trend among millennials)
https://www.glamourmagazine.co.uk/article/what-is-sologamy
Oh my, what a nutcase!
I moved to an ashram in Kerala where I meditated and subjected my body to an Ayurvedic cleanse, worked on a vineyard on Sicily’s Mount Etna and went on a solo-safari in the Selous, Africa's largest game reserve, a place that is remote, raw and teeming with wildlife. Exactly what I needed.
This is just the inevitable result of feminism. Thank goodness it is negatively evolutionary - with the sp3rm donor exception, of course. Maybe are "all alone" (i.e., intelligent life, as defined as being able to produce intelligent radio waves, on Earth) in the Universe because technologically advanced civilizations become feminized, thereby leading to its technological downfall.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I just think it's amazing on how some, in this case, women, think. This was a nice excerpt:

It all started when my thirst for some serious soul-searching at the end of a succession of failed romances drove me to get off the dating merry go-round in New York, vacate my apartment in Brooklyn, and wander off deep into the wilderness (as one does). I moved to an ashram in Kerala where I meditated and subjected my body to an Ayurvedic cleanse, worked on a vineyard on Sicily’s Mount Etna and went on a solo-safari in the Selous, Africa's largest game reserve, a place that is remote, raw and teeming with wildlife. Exactly what I needed.

Must be nice to live care free like that.
 

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Give her a break. She just wants to be able to fart in her bed and buy more dildos
 
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