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Teaching a woman to avoid players would be like teaching a dog to avoid a nicely seasoned and sauced beef. First of all, the player they imagine is going to be very good looking which is what they want. Second, the fact that they suspect or sense he's a player (as in popular with women) will make him even more attractive.

I think this is just part of building up the fantasy. They enjoy suspecting or knowing he's "bad", it makes them feel more naughty and helpless when they have sex with him and they like that. You see an example of this when she says "throughout my life I've been a magnet for players", what she means is that throughout her life she's been attracted to players, but putting it the way she does helps make her feel more helpless which she likes.
 
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What women dont realize is that is the default mode for any men who has options.

They would like to have a men with hundreds of options but that behaves like dog for them only, a further evidence they dont leave in the real reality.

They expect a men who has many women available for intimacy to drop them only to go out with them despite they "test him" by not being intimate....clearly if he does so, they lose interest cause he is not a challence and looks desperate.

Im sure that whoever programmed the operating system running female brain currently reside in a mental hospital or better yet a criminal madhouse.
 

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If you know early that this guy is 'too social', and he has like 1000 friends who are 'girls', you should run away straight. It's not that girls cannot be friends with men: it's that a guy who knows too many girls is suspicious.
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See this bullsh!t?
This goes back to my older advice about never letting a chick see your Facebook profile.
She's automatically going to judge you for having too many friends or too little friends. Social media is an unwinnable reputation destroyer.
 

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They expect a men who has many women available for intimacy to drop them only to go out with them despite they "test him" by not being intimate....clearly if he does so, they lose interest cause he is not a challence and looks desperate.
I know that's the party line around here, and clearly it exists.
But if it was as universal as it's made out to be, no couples would ever get together.
 
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What women dont realize is that is the default mode for any men who has options.

They would like to have a men with hundreds of options but that behaves like dog for them only, a further evidence they dont leave in the real reality.

They expect a men who has many women available for intimacy to drop them only to go out with them despite they "test him" by not being intimate....clearly if he does so, they lose interest cause he is not a challence and looks desperate.

Im sure that whoever programmed the operating system running female brain currently reside in a mental hospital or better yet a criminal madhouse.
Other female animals like fish and birds have showed a preference for males who seem to be popular with other females (depending on species and conditions), human females are no exception. We call it preselection in the manosphere, but in biology there is actually a name for it: mate choice copying. That doesn't just explain why a player or at least the fantasy of the man being one is so attractive, but also why they are more attracted to taken men than single men.

Their dream that this very good looking man who is popular with women, and has become smooth and confident because women validate him, is going to be "changed" by her or is going to choose her, makes sense in one way because obviously he is the most attractive man so they want him. But in another sense it's very strange. If a man dreamed that the well-off swimsuit model who is surrounded by models and high status men would be "changed" by him or choose him because of how special he is, he would be assumed to be mentally ill.
 
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^^^^
See this bullsh!t?
This goes back to my older advice about never letting a chick see your Facebook profile.
She's automatically going to judge you for having too many friends or too little friends. Social media is an unwinnable reputation destroyer.
You take what they say too seriously.

Being called or judged as a player is a good thing, they are complimenting you. They would not imagine you as a player if you weren't good looking and charming, and that they think other women want you makes you even more attractive on top of that and gives you the player moniker. Even if it makes them not "like" you, which I think it still will, it definitely makes them more attracted to you.
 
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Throughout my dating life, I've been a magnet to players. I attracted different types of guys, true, but the players are always out there, hunting.

Translation: I'm a hot lady. Dudes are always chasing me.

Unfortunately, players are so brilliant in showering you with affection and care in the beginning, and this tends to translate very fast into intimacy.

Translation: It's not my fault I've banged so many guys I can't remember.

Don't think that he will fall for you and 'choose' you. It won't happen.

Translation: None of the dudes that banged me silly wanted to hang around after.
 

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Throughout my dating life, I've been a magnet to players. I attracted different types of guys, true, but the players are always out there, hunting.

Translation: I'm a hot lady. Dudes are always chasing me.

Unfortunately, players are so brilliant in showering you with affection and care in the beginning, and this tends to translate very fast into intimacy.

Translation: It's not my fault I've banged so many guys I can't remember.

Don't think that he will fall for you and 'choose' you. It won't happen.

Translation: None of the dudes that banged me silly wanted to hang around after.
I thought the sexual revolution was all about freeing women to have the casual sex that the patriarchy was oppressing them from having, but now here she is complaining that none of the hot studs she likes to fvck wants a relationship with her. What's the deal? Which is it gonna be?
 

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I thought the sexual revolution was all about freeing women to have the casual sex that the patriarchy was oppressing them from having,
A lot of males were in favor of the sexual revolution also, because they wanted to have casual sex with more women without having to pretend to be interested in them. Also more opportunities for porn and group sex. They got what they wanted, but it was a double edged sword, to say the least.
 
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She comes across as someone who sought out players rather than someone who was the ‘victim’ of their games, to be honest.

I mean if you get burned once or twice by a player and aren’t smart enough to learn from that, this is what she is basically telling women, that she was fooled many times by random players. Now she’s an ‘expert’.

An expert is a women who isn’t fooled over and over by players. She either avoids them at the start or dumps them as soon as they show who they really are before they can play her.

Also a sociable guy is not a player wtf lol.

of course, no one wants to be played, man or woman and we all should avoid that but her article is stretching it a bit imo.
 

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What's the deal? Which is it gonna be?

Oldest fvcking story on Earth.

People are promised free shyte without consequences.

People take free shyte.

Consequences show up and people claim they've been cheated.

They even made up a story of a flute playing motherfvcker who made off with the villagers' kids because they refused to pay.

You can pay now, or you can pay later.

But you're gonna pay.

Sorry kids, no refunds.
 

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Other female animals like fish and birds have showed a preference for males who seem to be popular with other females (depending on species and conditions), human females are no exception. We call it preselection in the manosphere, but in biology there is actually a name for it: mate choice copying. That doesn't just explain why a player or at least the fantasy of the man being one is so attractive, but also why they are more attracted to taken men than single men.

Their dream that this very good looking man who is popular with women, and has become smooth and confident because women validate him, is going to be "changed" by her or is going to choose her, makes sense in one way because obviously he is the most attractive man so they want him. But in another sense it's very strange. If a man dreamed that the well-off swimsuit model who is surrounded by models and high status men would be "changed" by him or choose him because of how special he is, he would be assumed to be mentally ill.
Men are like a nice handbag. If other women desire them then they must be worth pursuing.
 

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I've had women ask me with a big smile on their face as I take off their clothes if I'm a player. The thing is that they know, or at least strongly suspect, but they don't really care if they are ready to get sexed.
 

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What women dont realize is that is the default mode for any men who has options.

They would like to have a men with hundreds of options but that behaves like dog for them only, a further evidence they dont leave in the real reality.

They expect a men who has many women available for intimacy to drop them only to go out with them despite they "test him" by not being intimate....clearly if he does so, they lose interest cause he is not a challence and looks desperate.

Im sure that whoever programmed the operating system running female brain currently reside in a mental hospital or better yet a criminal madhouse.
Criminals have jacked their minds.
 
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Every woman that called me a player was really just a height hor or just not attracted subjectively tbh, it's just an excuse. Those same women legit tried to hook me up with their friends lol. I've never lost a quality woman for being a player, in fact that's how I attracted them to begin with.
 
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A lot of males were in favor of the sexual revolution also, because they wanted to have casual sex with more women without having to pretend to be interested in them. Also more opportunities for porn and group sex. They got what they wanted, but it was a double edged sword, to say the least.
Yes, i was making fun of her more so than criticizing the sexual revolution. I am not a tradcon.

I've had women ask me with a big smile on their face as I take off their clothes if I'm a player. The thing is that they know, or at least strongly suspect, but they don't really care if they are ready to get sexed.
They want you to be a player. That is why they are asking with a big smile. It's just the blue pill that conditions you to think that women regard a "player" as something negative. No! they are attractive to women, both because it takes a desirable man to be able to be a player and because being popular with women makes him even more attractive. They enjoy fantasizing about how much other women want you and how many other women you must have and how smooth you must be.

When she asks if you're a player like that, give her a nice big smile back and say "yeah ;) or "of course ;)".
 
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Yes, i was making fun of her more so than criticizing the sexual revolution. I am not a tradcon.
And I was not advocating for the sexual revolution. Abandoning our traditional values has cost us more than we've gained, IMO, especially where it comes to women. I know PUAs will characterize that perspective as being blue pill, but they can kiss my white @ss. I was just pointing out that the sexual revolution was not all about feminism.
 

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And I was not advocating for the sexual revolution. Abandoning our traditional values has cost us more than we've gained, IMO, especially where it comes to women. I know PUAs will characterize that perspective as being blue pill, but they can kiss my white @ss.
Want to elaborate on this?
 

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Want to elaborate on this?
I've read some posts here saying they love feminism because it's easy to game and get laid in this climate.
But a lot of the complaints that guys have here about women are a byproduct of both feminism and the sexual revolution - girls skiing down cawk mountain and such. A lot of guys are here because they just want to get laid a lot. But other guys have turned to the red pill, MGTOW, and the like because the quality of women today is unsuitable for marriage or for starting a familly. They've become players because they feel they don't have any other choice. That is a byproduct of feminism and the sexual revolution - as well as social media.

PUAs will tell you that traditional values are just hokum based on social conditioning. I'm saying we've lost more in giving up our traditional values than we've gained, but I don't expect everyone here to agree.
 
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