"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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article: Ending the p0rn epidemic

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I don't see anything wrong with masterbation or porn. It is safe ,satisfying, and fun. I think alot of guys need to know their balance. everything in moderation.
And it's good for prostate health. Your tank has been designed to be flushed on a regular basis.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I remember when porn started to really take off in the 90's ...
Porn started to take off then (pun repeated) because of the drop in price of video recording technology. And yes, the newsgroup alt.binaries.multimedia.erotica helped it to spread (gosh, I remember the days of downloading a bunch of numbered RAR files to get a video, LOL).
 
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