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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
article: Do Women Need Marriage Anymore?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Yep, during WWII they had to recruit women into the economy since most of the men were fighting. After the war, the women stayed there.
Personally, I'm thrilled with this vast societal change. I've never wanted to get married myself, and so the fact that women aren't as interested in it is music to my ears. This means they're more likely to f*ck without "commitment," and I'm not a committing type of guy.
I can't wait for the day when the roles are completely reversed. Men sitting home eating bon-bons on the couch while women slave away in dead-end jobs. I'm serious, I think that would be great.
The only way I'd marry is if it were some wealthy b*tch and I got to hang out by the pool all day and never work another day in my life. If you're going to bother hitching yourself to one chick for the rest of your life, you better hit a jackpot. Why else would you do it?
Personally, I'm thrilled with this vast societal change. I've never wanted to get married myself, and so the fact that women aren't as interested in it is music to my ears. This means they're more likely to f*ck without "commitment," and I'm not a committing type of guy.
I can't wait for the day when the roles are completely reversed. Men sitting home eating bon-bons on the couch while women slave away in dead-end jobs. I'm serious, I think that would be great.
The only way I'd marry is if it were some wealthy b*tch and I got to hang out by the pool all day and never work another day in my life. If you're going to bother hitching yourself to one chick for the rest of your life, you better hit a jackpot. Why else would you do it?
u will NEVER find a woman who gives you even 10% of the sort of freedom and money men give women/wives. it just aint IN them to be that generous to anyone but their kids, especially not an adult male, no matter HOW many billions of $ they are "worth".
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Master Don Juan
citibank... really?
Yup, I know it's come up pretty frequently of late, but traditional marriage was still a raw deal for men.
I remember a few years ago there was this rockabilly/hipster-chick I saw briefly. And she was selling herself to me as this horny hipster housewife. She had this vision of herself as a full-time housewife, doing all the housewifey things, i.e. cooking, cleaning, looking pretty for me, blowing me at the end of the day. She'd do a bit of seamstressing from home, but I'd basically be supporting both of us in this little fantasy. And I thought about this quite a bit, because no girl had ever offered me anything like that, but I decided that although novel, it was still a pretty sh!tty deal. I don't need anyone to do my housekeeping and cooking for me, and a FWB isn't going to cost me $30K/year. And that's assuming she was even capable of making good on any of this. No dice princess.
...Now it's coming back to me! She supposedly had some kind of chronic fatigue related "illness", so you can imagine how seriously I took her proposal. Did I mention she was still in and out of university at age 35? Now wonder she was trying to hook a breadwinner.
I remember a few years ago there was this rockabilly/hipster-chick I saw briefly. And she was selling herself to me as this horny hipster housewife. She had this vision of herself as a full-time housewife, doing all the housewifey things, i.e. cooking, cleaning, looking pretty for me, blowing me at the end of the day. She'd do a bit of seamstressing from home, but I'd basically be supporting both of us in this little fantasy. And I thought about this quite a bit, because no girl had ever offered me anything like that, but I decided that although novel, it was still a pretty sh!tty deal. I don't need anyone to do my housekeeping and cooking for me, and a FWB isn't going to cost me $30K/year. And that's assuming she was even capable of making good on any of this. No dice princess.
...Now it's coming back to me! She supposedly had some kind of chronic fatigue related "illness", so you can imagine how seriously I took her proposal. Did I mention she was still in and out of university at age 35? Now wonder she was trying to hook a breadwinner.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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I can see it now . A world of butch manjaws and effeminate manboobs as far as the eye can see, you'd be in heaven eh snarkster?Zarky said:
Hell we're on a fast track there now, it's not long now until you'll be getting your wish.