"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Article: "Death of the masculine man?"

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Many people truly do not know what masculine is, thus we have misconceptions that being masculine means you're not comfortable in the kitchen, can't iron or are very good at motor mechanics.

Being masculine is simply not being afraid of or ashamed of your testosterone. Being able to iron has absolutely nothing to do with it. Actually, if you're to be a player or bachelor then it'd be a very good idea to learn how to iron as no respectable man will be seen in a creased suit.

Only if you're not comfortable enough in your masculinity as to be afraid to do traditionally feminine chores then you have a problem.
 
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