article: Dear single dudes: it’s time to man up

[MatureDJ]

http://themattwalshblog.com/2014/06/19/dear-single-men-time-man-figure/#l12ZEm6PkOoHDk5K.99

Lot's of stuff in the article, but here is a little morsel:

Here’s some brutal honesty for you: if you ‘aren’t ready for something serious,’ then you need to go get yourself ready and leave these ladies alone until you do. You can’t go out and have sex (I mean, ‘hook up,’ as the middle schoolers at the lunch table might call it) and then claim that you ‘aren’t ready for something serious.’ It’s too late, friend. Sex is something serious.

my opinion: where does he tell the ladies to act like the women of yesteryear? :cuss:

 

[speed dawg]

He says some decent things, like how we devolving into primates in a sense. But cancels it out with the predictable shaming like "How old are we?". Ha, that's one of the 'go-to' shaming techniques.

I'm not certain who is to blame. Are men to blame for dropping standards? Are women to blame for changing, forcing men to evolve? We know envy and delusion are the roots of feminism/liberalism. It's like Congress.....sure, the Tea Party has good ideas in theory, but they aren't rooted in reality. They aren't changing a damn thing up there.

So which route to take?

 

[logicallefty]

The root cause is that men run the world. Then somewhere along the way one man got infected with a virus making him believe 'if you give these second class creatures called women a little more power and a little more respect, your d!ck will get wetter more often than now'. And so it spread between men like bubonic plague. More power and politeness to women. Who dont have the brains to make anything good from said power for all human beings, just for themselves.. Which carries on To to today. Where a few men found this red pill labeled "realitrex", took it, and were cured. For the rest of men, the disease has got stronger and spread more rapidly as time has went on.

 

[Poonani Maker]

I think what you Must do today, if you are a man, to be guaranteed success with a woman, for marriage, for life, you. have. to. be. so. together. I mean, you have to just be vicious, as a man, just either, physically, or mentally/argumentively...You have to be Armed to the Teeth. I mean, you must go full force into the art of sophistry, just be a damned Lawyer, who stomps any and all. Good lawyers work Damn hard. You must be above all. Either that, or you must be dominant in the arena of fighting physically, the more dangerous route. A woman has to be scared of you to stay with you these days. She has to just be intimidated to the hilt! I mean, she has to, um, not even think twice about going against you, say..in a divorce proceeding, or another bogus suit against you, or to TRY something with you. So either hit the books or hit the weights and become dominant as fvck, If you wanna keep the woman, or have the woman you're with not give it a second thought about fvcking with you.

 

[AttackFormation]

Feminists have been campaigning for decades for the right to be pumped and dumped in a commitment-free hookup culture and now it's our fault? what the f*ck ?

 

[Greasy Pig]

Fvcking spot on Attack Formation.
The only people to blame for feeling like worthless slvts are the women who have created the situation.
Men have always been programmed to follow their primal urges while women evolved with the restraint required to be mothers and nurturers.
Now women want to be like men and scream about being treated as such.
I have no sympathy.

 

[Mike32ct]

I thought "man up" was feminist code for "marry a single mom" lol.

That's what I was thinking when I opened the article.

My translating skills are getting rusty.

 

[The Duke]

Feminists have been campaigning for decades for the right to be pumped and dumped in a commitment-free hookup culture and now it's our fault? what the f*ck ?

Exactly...female logic at its finest!

 

[AttackFormation]

On one level I think they're just unable or unwilling to use proper reasoning, but on the other I think it may subconsciously be a sh!t test. If they subconsciously see men as figures that are supposed to be dominant then it is mens' fault for giving them what they asked for - daddy didn't protect me from myself! I looked up to him! WAAAAH IT'S DADDY'S FAULT. What these women hate isn't men although they express it that way, it's their own conflicting drives toward men.

What's funny though is that if you were to give women commitment they would soon start to resent it since it restricts their hypergamy (ie. what we see today in for example marriages). They want men who are desirable to them, but like I've said before they view the making of a man the same way Bismarck viewed the making of a sausage - good when finished but undesirable to witness. They don't understand that shaming (a favourite female tactic as anyone here would know) men for being desirable = less desirable men, because they are biologically driven to find certain traits attractive. Charming studs aren't born, they're made - but that's not something either females want to admit or males want to tell females (since feminism looks down on it). I'm not saying men need to f*ck a lot of women before settling, it's more of an attitude question (example: abundance vs scarcity mentality) than that. I'm not even interesting in f*cking around for the sake of it and I'm sure most of us wouldn't be if we actually found a girl we wanted to commit to, because the definition of commitment for a man is basically getting such satisfactory sex and feminine behaviour from one girl that you have no need or care to seek more of it. Gee, I wonder why most men who cheat do it because their wife no longer desires sex with them. But then you learn the hard way that f*cking around is really the only option with the women you meet because they can't complete you anyway.

Then again what's the average female's interest in subjects that matter to them like social history or biology? that doesn't compare to some celebrity's latest whatever, sitting in front of a sitcom, having a grrrrl's time out, wondering which hair colour they should dye to next, running their hamster about the latest drama/gossip, buying the latest iphone/doing the latest fad because everyone else has/does it (it took my brain some time to comprehend that that wasn't a paraphrase of the reason, it was the reason) and getting more likes on instagram where they pose with their makeup, tights, fake cosmetics and push up bras and then go to add a like to the next "women are being sexualised by the patriarchy" article.

 

[Zarky]

are we supposed to care what some random bloggers think of the world?

ah, the internet.. where every opinion counts, no matter how retarded.

 

[VladPatton]

This guy's kind of a tool. So manly. Look at him in those little square pics! If you grind him up you wouldn't be able to make 2 meatballs out of him. What if Alyssa wants to divorce his pseudo-alpha ass one of these days? He'd be a pile of liquid beta-dog-shıt, like most blue pill men that get dumped. He's gonna be looking for the next wifey ASAP. Because after all... this is serious business all this adult sex, marriage and all, and he ain't fückin around, Skipper! Have some fun, you broccoli shake sippin aṣṣhole.

Also, the comparison between human dating and flying a commercial plane half-assed with hundreds of souls on board is beyond asinine. Commercial planes don't fly anywhere near 600 MPH, either you ignorant hipster asshat.

 

[dasein]

I feel sorry for that guy, plain as day that he's trying to project his misery.

Reminds me of a friend who was a big player in the day, a complete natural, tall, rich, good looking, charismatic, large family business to walk into (not that bright though, and very easy to read/bad poker face). We hadn't seen each other much since his marriage to a -great- woman, a real exception and standout... and she was still great, gorgeous, sexy, treated him very well, a joy to be around. His kids were 5 or so then. He starts going on about "how it changes your life, can't imagine how I lived without it, I'm a different person." He was actually starting to tear up, and when I looked in his eyes, we both knew in that moment that his tears were not tears of joy. I gave him a pat on the shoulder, he seemed to really need it.

So man up and join the miserable company, guys! Every day you don't it makes them more and more envious and spiteful. Next thing you know, the guy who wrote the article will be calling all unmarried men "a bunch of selfish a-holes." Human nature is a very interesting thing, and often transparent. LOL.