"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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(article) Dating is competitive manipulation

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generalization is dangerous in any situation...take what she said with a grain of salt...i think she's typical
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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CptFantastic said:
I've actually run into a few blogs that have picked this topic up, it's just too bad they haven't responded on the forums. What are they afraid of?

This guy even quoted this thread...

http://greatorgreatest.blogspot.com
Amazing.......

It's really ironic that you resort to playing these same games yourself to promote your site especially considering your article is in complete opposition of them.
 

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Drum&Bass said:
YOU MUST DITCH THE WHOLE IDEA OF SOCIAL PROOF !
This just made me LMFAO.

I have to say, this thread has been an entertaining read.

RT, I give you my full respect for remaining rational and circumspect in the face of all this. I can sign every word your write and your writing is some of the most intelligent I have come across on this forum. I really enjoy it. Props.

Now that I'm done sucking your d1ck.... ;)

Seriously though, this divisiveness solves NOTHING. I understand there is a divide in the schools of thought here but I really don't see how further arguing about it helps us in any way.

We can at least agree on the basics, right?

.....right?
 

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azanon said:
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Anyone watch American Idol last week? Simon's advise was golden to that one cute girl; (paraphrased) "when your competition falls on the ground, you'll do best in this business by learning to kick them while they're down". She retorted she wouldnt do that to a friend. I'm already wondering if we'll see this naive girl learn her lesson later in the show (which would be tragic since she was the better singer and was better looking).
American Idol?
 

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Wow, once in a while a post that really gets the emotions roiling, huh??? :flowers:

Anyways, this is an indictment of human nature, of herd mentality, and it is not, or should be, an accusatory finger pointed against any specific gender. To say it is the fault of men or women only is self-delusional.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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azanon said:
You're talking about history, i'm talking about the show "Rome" thus far. Up until now, there's no question Marc Antony is the most DJ so far. The only sex Octavian has had so far in the series Rome was with 1. a paid hooker and 2. his sister.

I said Octavian was a DJ despite what has happened so far, and said nothing about the now dead Julius. But you are correcct, Julius was definitely a DJ. I'm just focusing on Season 2 now.

Also, thanks for the spoiler. I'm sure long ago i was taught Roman history, but i had since forgotten a lot of it.
Now you saw what happened to Marc Anthony.
 
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