styles07
Don Juan
generalization is dangerous in any situation...take what she said with a grain of salt...i think she's typical
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
(article) Dating is competitive manipulation
- Thread starter RAFCbearfilm
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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This just made me LMFAO.Drum&Bass said:
I have to say, this thread has been an entertaining read.
RT, I give you my full respect for remaining rational and circumspect in the face of all this. I can sign every word your write and your writing is some of the most intelligent I have come across on this forum. I really enjoy it. Props.
Now that I'm done sucking your d1ck....
Seriously though, this divisiveness solves NOTHING. I understand there is a divide in the schools of thought here but I really don't see how further arguing about it helps us in any way.
We can at least agree on the basics, right?
.....right?
Wow, once in a while a post that really gets the emotions roiling, huh??? :flowers:
Anyways, this is an indictment of human nature, of herd mentality, and it is not, or should be, an accusatory finger pointed against any specific gender. To say it is the fault of men or women only is self-delusional.
Anyways, this is an indictment of human nature, of herd mentality, and it is not, or should be, an accusatory finger pointed against any specific gender. To say it is the fault of men or women only is self-delusional.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.