article: Are you dating a player?

[MatureDJ]

http://yahoo.match.com/y/article.aspx?articleid=8717&TrackingID=526103&BannerID=678815

The article says that a woman should go for the "nice guy" instead of the "suave guy".

 

[runner83]

Yet another example of women not knowing what they want, and polluting the minds of unsuspecting guys and girls with it.

I also disagree with no. 2 and no. 3.

What kind of player (which in this context is presumably meant to include DJ's and any other type of real man who still has his balls attached) would "declare his feelings right away" and "always plan romantic dates"?

Thanks for posting this. Reminds me why I set my signature line to what I did.

 

[Zarky]

This type of article is called "filler." Nobody reads them, women included. msn.com has billions of them.

 

[zekko]

I got a kick out of this part:

Conversely, the player wants to be in situations that will glorify only himself, especially around his woman. He doesn’t want to listen to another man’s interesting story.

This amuses me because it's pretty much what a lot of pickup gurus teach:
Be the center of attention, take the best spot in the group, be the leader, be the guy telling the interesting stories, get everyone focused on you.

I can see some would-be DJ complaining about the guy telling interesting stories: "This AFC was trying to amog me". Lol.

 

[mrRuckus]

The whole thing is pointless because no one can even define what a player is supposed to be so you have 500 women all giving signs of a player based on 500 different definitions.

Does me quietly dating X women at a time while looking for one worth being my girlfriend make me a player? Am i supposed to go celibate until i meet a girl worth more than sex? I had 3 dates last weekend. It's not like it's my fault none of them are worthy of more with me. I'm not "playing" anyone.