Article: Approach Women With Confidence

[Smooth Player 056]

Hey Guys I am new to this site, but not to the game. This is my first post on this site so ill give you an article i wrote a while ago.


Approach With Confidence
The main thing is to walk over say hello, ask her name, and then the mistake usually follows after when men immediately give her compliments and suck up to them.

This doesn't work, Why? Cause most women are used to this sort of approach and will just think your the same as every other guy.

Straight after the initial meeting gain eye contact, give a grin and then look away.

The reason why is, body language plays a big part in talking to a women.

Talk naturally, don't worry about what you should or shouldn't say and don't fall into the trap of feeling nervous around her or even intimidated.

After a few minutes of talking to her, tell her you better get back to your friends now, go to turn and walk away, then ask her "Do you have a phone number", if she responds with a yes, take out a pen to write it down or if you have a mobile phone enter her number into that. This is one of the most common techniques and it very rarely fails.

She will be surprised by this as she is used to men chatting her up all the time and giving her a constant never ending supply of compliments.

What you have done now is intrigued her and she is more than likely to meet up with you again.

Don't make the mistake of contacting her the next day, maybe wait a day or two. It's not that your playing hard to get, your just not making the same error that every other man has made.

90% of the time men are not shy they are just to worried about saying what there thinking as they think it will be an immediate rejection.

-Smooth Player 056-

 

[I'm Joe Dirt]

Duh confidence is important. That's only been mentioned about 5 billion times on this site.

 

[bud_2005]

"Do you have a phone number"



99.9999% of Americans have a phone number

 

[mungro]

"Do you have a phone number"

While yes, 99% of americans have phones. That line satisifies a salesman trick I learned awhile back. If you can get your prospective customer to start answering questions with "yes" instead of "no" it starts a subconscious trend in their mind. For instance, you always ask, "do you like cooking food? yes? well then you would like this new stove... etc."

That initial "yes" can be more powerful than you think.... just a thought. Personally, I just like to make the suggestion of taking down a number. I'll usually say, "I should get your number, so we can get together sometime" Its not the strongest statement, but it's not a question either... its just a statement, and I rarely hear a girl say, "no".