"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Art Bell - Ugly dude only goes for non americanized women.

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DJDamage

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00Kevin said:
sounds like this guy has made smart moves in not chosing americanized women.
Probably. But me think he wouldn't be able to get an American women anyway. He did marry 3 times to non American chicks before so he is still AFC at heart.

Any old ugly American dude with money can go to a the Philippines and find a poor young country girl who doesn't speak english and be awed by his money and mannerism.

"Ya me like the ugly white man with money to save me from prostitution"
 

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DJDamage said:
Probably. But me think he wouldn't be able to get an American women anyway. He did marry 3 times to non American chicks before so he is still AFC at heart.

Any old ugly American dude with money can go to a the Philippines and find a poor young country girl who doesn't speak english and be awed by his money and mannerism.

"Ya me like the ugly white man with money to save me from prostitution"
That poor young country girl will cook, clean, and accommodate him far more then any Americanized hoe would.

I don't think he is an AFC at all. He is a man that found success by his own means. I'm sure with his money he would get a hot americanized hoe. But he doesn't want that. He clearly wants a good woman who will treat him well.

He is just outsourcing his women.

furthermore, what guy doesn't like a woman who is in awe of him? Sometimes I think North american men pay far to high a price to aquire that. It is much more effective to simply outsource for cheeper higher quality products.
 

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00Kevin said:
furthermore, what guy doesn't like a woman who is in awe of him? Sometimes I think North american men pay far to high a price to aquire that. It is much more effective to simply outsource for cheeper higher quality products.
You are right about that. It doesn't make a difference if a poor girl from abroad is at awe of a American men with money as oppose to a middle class American women who as at awe with a doctor or a lawyer. In the end of the day all it counts is what she puts into the relationship.

Farther more who gives a sh1t to the reasons why a woman loves you. If I am looking for a wife, I rather have a woman who is at awe with me because of money but in the end of the day she keeps my balls dry, she keeps my stomach full, the house clean and still manage to take care of the kids. Many American women claim to marry for love but they don't know or care to be a good wife or a fit mother. With a typical North American married woman, you barley get sex, she doesn't cook or clean and throws the kids at day care or hire a nanny she could go out shopping, party every day, nags you while being unhappy and get fat. After all that she can still divorce you and let the courts rape you pfff.....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Duh, he's rich and famous. Of course he can get a hot young broad. Quit being such an extremist. Many foreign marriages do not last, and marry domestic marriages do last, and happily I might add. It's all up to YOU to qualify women instead of just marrying the first broad to throw sex and attention your way, whether she's foreign or American.
 
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