She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Probably. But me think he wouldn't be able to get an American women anyway. He did marry 3 times to non American chicks before so he is still AFC at heart.00Kevin said:sounds like this guy has made smart moves in not chosing americanized women.
That poor young country girl will cook, clean, and accommodate him far more then any Americanized hoe would.DJDamage said:Probably. But me think he wouldn't be able to get an American women anyway. He did marry 3 times to non American chicks before so he is still AFC at heart.
Any old ugly American dude with money can go to a the Philippines and find a poor young country girl who doesn't speak english and be awed by his money and mannerism.
"Ya me like the ugly white man with money to save me from prostitution"
You are right about that. It doesn't make a difference if a poor girl from abroad is at awe of a American men with money as oppose to a middle class American women who as at awe with a doctor or a lawyer. In the end of the day all it counts is what she puts into the relationship.00Kevin said:furthermore, what guy doesn't like a woman who is in awe of him? Sometimes I think North american men pay far to high a price to aquire that. It is much more effective to simply outsource for cheeper higher quality products.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.