"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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arrrg Afc girls wont leave me alone

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I know her through my best friend. He was friends with her but i'v never met her in person. She looks hot from the photos but i dunno i just find it creepy meeting someone i'v never seen and only talk to them on msn or the net even though i know she is not some 40 year old. I just find it creepy. Do any of you feel this way?



yeah she wont leave me alone, i found out she goes to college with me, oh bummer, now she is phoing saying to meet up. lol this happened a long time ago and i just flaked out. jeeeeez why dont they get the message. O well, i'v decided to meet her to get if over with, then maby she will leave me alone lol.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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at least i know how girlz feel with afc guys.



i mean they are boring..... they talk about love and all this bull**** when you first meet them. haha oh irony
 

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So you want to lose this chick in person eh?


Fart a lot. Seriously, there's nothing grosser than sitting with someone who's lettin er rip hardcore.
 

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I love farting. Not on a first date, though :p

Oh wasn't there a technique that involved farting in public? I forget. Did a search, but couldn't find that thread anywhere. Had something to do with weeding out the bytches though :D
 

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the best cure for AFC is to have a AFC GIRL bothering you - shows you how you used to act!

to get rid of her - say your not looking for a relationship right now...
or maybe you hve just have a fvck buddy
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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lol **** buddy.... haha 2 bad needyness is a turn off. Confidence is not only just a killer for women. I mean i will not go out with a desperate girl, no matter how bad, cause i consider that in insult. If she is desperate, and is coming after me, wut would it say about myself if i let her? i feel i would be putting myself down and going with someone who truly values me. I mean i like shy girls, so long as they are not desperate, but no way in hell will i like one that is clingy. lol i guess its the same for both sexes
 
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