"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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arrogent vs coocky... whats the diff?

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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B-Lemond

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I KNOW for a fact that this question has been asked already.

In case you didn't read the sticky about doing a search before you make a new thread, hear is the answer to your question:

Do a search because this question has already been asked.
 

oakraiderz2

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Get a dictionary and look it up. You gotta know what the difference is...youre 18 years old.
 

DJ_in_making

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This question has had a BIG discussion in the past. I'm not gonna get on you b/c you have only 18 posts. Meaning
a. You're relatively new or b. You don't come here often. But in the future make sure to search b4 posting. But since we're here I think. ****iness is not caring to be humble or hiding your great confidence. While arrogant is sort of overrating yourself.
 
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