You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
They could had always gone to CCBill if they wanted a porn approved CC provider. I think they want to raise a lot of money and possibly go public. That's the reason it seems to be.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Uh, they would need to stop the blatant sexual discrimination in conscription before they could address this.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
It's ok. They can just work as prostitutes. All of the simps that sent them money are potential clients.‘I Feel Used’: OnlyFans Made Millions Off Sex Workers’ Labor, Then Hung Them Out To Dry
A sudden policy change that will ban "sexually explicit" material from OnlyFans threatens to upend the lives of those who made the platform successful.www.huffpost.com
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
OnlyFans chicks view their johns like a regular chick views her Beta orbitors - there for the benefit without having to put out a hard product (i.e., actual physical contact). That said, any chick on OnlyFans is going to get used to the money, and if the only way to get the money is to physically perform the contact stimulation, they'll do it. It should be said that stripping is an intermediate situation between OnlyFans/camming & "physically performing ..." (of course, this runs the gamut from the "look but don't touch" virginal strippers and the lapdancers who are only separated from the john's juices by a layer of fleece sweat pants or cotton athletic shorts
- typically such strippers find their way to the clubs that match their level of hustle).
They are trying to walk the tightrope of being respectable enough so that the banks aren't shamed by doing business with them, and being raunchy enough so they continue to have revenue. The bottom line is that nothing motivates men to spend money like T&A poon.Caved -
OnlyFans reverses porn ban, users remain skeptical
OnlyFans is pumping the breaks on its controversial decision to ban pornography, but the damage may already be done to the content subscription service.finance.yahoo.com
This is the debate we're having in the west. About whether women should be allowed to monetize their pusses on the internet. Meanwhile the Taliban...They are trying to walk the tightrope of being respectable enough so that the banks aren't shamed by doing business with them, and being raunchy enough so they continue to have revenue. The bottom line is that nothing motivates men to spend money like T&A poon.
I think that, believe it or not, our femynist friends decrying how important these income streams are to women have very quickly turned the cultural tide; it's them vs. the goody-too-shoes columnists like the NYT's Nicholas Kristof, who wrote the seminal editorial about how all these porn sites had revenge/oppressed porn with the blessings of the banks.
Here is that seminal editorial:
Opinion | The Children of Pornhub (Published 2020)
Why does Canada allow this company to profit off videos of exploitation and assault?www.nytimes.com
Here is a great article about what a media hoar this author is:Here is that seminal editorial:
Opinion | The Children of Pornhub (Published 2020)
Why does Canada allow this company to profit off videos of exploitation and assault?
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
