Arrgggghhh!

[Speed Demon]

I met this girl the other day and thought she was pretty hot and wanted to get to know her a little better. Well tonight, me and a few buddies meet up with her and her friends. The whole time, I couldn't grab ahold of her attention. She was all over one of my other friends and ended up making out with him at the end of the night! And just earlier that night, she gave me her number but when i found out she kissed my friend, i erased it.
There was another girl there that I also thought was hot and have known for a while BUT she thinks I'm a pretty big loser. How can I go from being a loser to going on a successful date with one of these girls? I don't look bad at all and alot of girls have told me I'm hot but I just can't grab their attention and gain attraction. This post is mainly to vent but ANY help or tips is greatly appriciated.

 

[Microphone Fiend]

1) Stop chasing girls who think you're a loser
2) find girls who don't think you are a loser
3) fvck them
4) girls who thought you were a loser will want to get with you




(Note: Between step 2-3 you stop caring about the gurls in step 1)

 

[Cloud-uk]

5) Make yourself not a loser?

 

[Microphone Fiend]

by following pertinent advice at sosuave that is a given

 

[Void]

Dude read the DJ high school bible first.
You can't go from knowing nothing about girls to be a Don Juan in one day.

 

[Speed Demon]

I have read the High School bible. I tried to have the best body language and I didn't act like I was too interested in them. I even used a little kino.

 

[Hot Ice]

Originally posted by Speed Demon
I have read the High School bible. I tried to have the best body language and I didn't act like I was too interested in them. I even used a little kino.

Well, those alone, get you absolutely nowhere.

 

[Speed Demon]

so why don't yall tell me what I should do instead of what i shouldn't be doing?

 

[Microphone Fiend]

easy there mr smarty pants, i already did. meet new girls and refine your skills. Work on conversation skills and not sounding desperate among other things you ALREADY KNOW since you read the HS bible, and you'll be fine.

 

[comic_relief]

do bootcamp away from girls that think that you are a loser

 

[VIVAlasVEGASBaby]

It's all about reading a girls response to you. It's pretty easy to tell if a chick likes you. You did the right thing; this chick obviously has no interest so you erased her number. It's one chick who is a waste of your time anyways. Keep talking to girls who aren't b*tches and keep working on your social skills. Sooner or later you'll run into a chick who actually likes you.

btw were any of her friends hitting on you? It's pretty easy to miss something like that when you have your mind already set on a chick.

 

[Hot Ice]

Originally posted by Speed Demon
so why don't yall tell me what I should do instead of what i shouldn't be doing?

What Mr. Microphone said.

Stop being needy over some certain woman who think you are a loser, in her eyes, you will stay as loser.

We all who know what we are talking about have made hard work to get this point. I cannot tell you ANYTHING that should you do to become a real DJ instantly. All I can say is that follow the DJ Bible and experiment on yourself and work hard. That's the ONLY way.

 

[Speed Demon]

thanks guys. Pretty much all of the girls there thought i was a loser. They always call my friends but never call me, which kinds pisses me off. Iv'e read the dj bible over and over. My friend that she made out with was considered hot by many girls and has no problem getting girls. I will just let practice make perfect. Thanks alot guys.

 

[Hot Ice]

Iv'e read the dj bible over and over.

I will just let practice make perfect.

Yes, lot of people say that they have read the bible, but nobody gives a crap if you know that stuff if you don't have experience applying. That's the problem with the boards these days.

People are just staying here and asking, instead of experimenting. That is the key to success.

You can't win without failing first.
Lose that fear and you are on the road.

In your case, always have the self respect. If some people think you are a loser, screw them!
Only respect people who give respect to you.

 

[hcaz074]

dont go with your friends. Or get friends who are bigger losers than you so you look good.

 

[VIVAlasVEGASBaby]

Originally posted by hcaz074
dont go with your friends. Or get friends who are bigger losers than you so you look good.

What a tip