ready123
Master Don Juan
this thread is not about you, don't hijack itCapedCrusader08 said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
arrested for being a male
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Number_One
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Im with you bro. What I say is...women are actually intelligent beings, go out and have fun with them.If you are truly being yourself and not using the lines/routines, it should not matter if the "Guru's" sell out. Most people here won't agree with me because of their mindsets, but it is true you can say almost anything and get away with it, if you have good subcommunication.
jtrain 289
Senior Don Juan
lol haha trust me im no nerd i bench 350 pounds and run a 4.7 40 yard dash man im also trying to walk on to arizona state. And you should not always look for signs before you go for the kill, beautiful women hide their interest by looking for signs you put the focus on the girl instaed of yourself. im gonna keep doing what im doing i dont care what happens to me. What i did was take risk and i dont regret it ill would do it again
jtrain 289
Senior Don Juan
the other wierd thing is this girl before the incident would go up to mysister and constantly tell her how cool and funny she thought i was. Also she is one of the biggest sluts in our school she's just psycho i dont think her calling the cops had anything to do with me she just wanted attention. I do what i do to her to every girl i talk to and they love it and i dare say she loved it to but she just had another agenda. i dont give a fuk anyway jail wasnt that bad. All i m worried about is if the other girls will see me as a rapist because she's telling everyone i pushed her againbst the wall and grabbed her boob. When i just danced around her without touching her
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
Just tell them you misread her and you thought she would not mind. It's that simple.Then say you are sorry, then never talk to her or any of her stuck up friends again.
SharinganUser
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Did she ask you to stop? If not then you have a case, if she did then that's sexual harassment. Next time dont do something stupid like that. What was the point anyway???
JHeights83rd
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posted by Jtrain 289
i just got arrested from school for a girl saying that i sexually harassesed her and the whole school knows about it i didnt even touch but they just said i did i was dancing around her in a sexual way though but didnt touch her. Now iam at home on suspension what do you think the girls will think about me when i get back to school ?
I dont know if you go to Fk Lane hs or not, but i know if there, you probably wont be back in school to see the girls, what theyre doing now is seeing if the allegations are true, & investigating, but you will probably be suspended & expelled when u get back. You probably have to go back & talk to the assistant principals, & you will be kicked out when they talk to you. If not, they will most likely try to get you to transfer.
What did you do to her exactly? That will help determine how your popularity will be if you get back into your school, which is a very low chance.
i just got arrested from school for a girl saying that i sexually harassesed her and the whole school knows about it i didnt even touch but they just said i did i was dancing around her in a sexual way though but didnt touch her. Now iam at home on suspension what do you think the girls will think about me when i get back to school ?
I dont know if you go to Fk Lane hs or not, but i know if there, you probably wont be back in school to see the girls, what theyre doing now is seeing if the allegations are true, & investigating, but you will probably be suspended & expelled when u get back. You probably have to go back & talk to the assistant principals, & you will be kicked out when they talk to you. If not, they will most likely try to get you to transfer.
What did you do to her exactly? That will help determine how your popularity will be if you get back into your school, which is a very low chance.
jtrain 289
Senior Don Juan
i already got 5 days of out of school suspension why would they want to do more? this is the first time i have gotten into truoble this year to.
JHeights83rd said:posted by Jtrain 289
i just got arrested from school for a girl saying that i sexually harassesed her and the whole school knows about it i didnt even touch but they just said i did i was dancing around her in a sexual way though but didnt touch her. Now iam at home on suspension what do you think the girls will think about me when i get back to school ?
I dont know if you go to Fk Lane hs or not, but i know if there, you probably wont be back in school to see the girls, what theyre doing now is seeing if the allegations are true, & investigating, but you will probably be suspended & expelled when u get back. You probably have to go back & talk to the assistant principals, & you will be kicked out when they talk to you. If not, they will most likely try to get you to transfer.
What did you do to her exactly? That will help determine how your popularity will be if you get back into your school, which is a very low chance.
yeah, what excatly did you do? Im confused as to how it actually was, either way I would have tried a little harder to contest it, and made a big scence about it.
You should check with your school friends, and see what she has been saying about it, while you've been suspended. If she's saying you pushed her onto a locker..and grabbed her boobs, then you will probally loose alot of face with the girls.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Alphamale1821
Senior Don Juan
can we say high school
Wow she got you arrested and you wonder what she thinks of you? Fvck that b1tch.jtrain 289 said:i just got arrested from school for a girl saying that i sexually harassesed her and the whole school knows about it i didnt even touch but they just said i did i was dancing around her in a sexual way though but didnt touch her. Now iam at home on suspension what do you think the girls will think about me when i get back to school ?
jtrain 289
Senior Don Juan
i dont care what she thinks i care about what the other girls think but i think if i get a chance to explain people will belive me
JHeights83rd
Don Juan
If u go to Lane or one of those schools, that other hs in bedstuy that all the kids from bushwick go to, harrasment is very serious, they usually dont keep both people in the school. They usually take 48 hours to investigate allegations, determine what actually happend, then take action after suspension. If u did the ****, you will be suspended then expelled, if she made false accusations she would be suspended & expelled.posted by jtrain 289
i already got 5 days of out of school suspension why would they want to do more? this is the first time i have gotten into truoble this year to.
Djs gotta get out of our heads, & think from the other side. Its not about u. Harrasment is serious buddy, if u worked at a job & something came up like that, u would b investigated, then fired, not to punish u but cuz u cant stay there, uve made the environment uncomfortable for a lot of people. Same thing w/ school. You will probably be kicked out when you get back, thats usually how they do it, if they dont expell u, theyll make u transfer, & maybe put transfer on ur record. Either she leaves or u leave, thats how the school does it.
Like i said maybe if u post what u did we could help u more w/ ur rep. But until then, with the low possibilty that ull be back at that school, ur rep is shot. F what anybody else says.
When I was a young teenager in school it was considered nothing to grab a girl's ass as she walked by exciting the school bus. Back then no one even heard of sexual harassment, stalking or creepy. There was just being either a "cool" guy or a dork/nerd. I'm am not that old and things have really changed. I don't care for all this PC/feminist BS. It's really just thinly-vieled sexism againt males.
And I don't know how you can get arrested based just on her allegation. The police should need some type of evidence and can't just go on an unsubstantiated claim. All they could do is question you, and shouldn't arrest you on a he said she said with no witnesses or evidence. This would be false arrest. They have to have good cause to show a law violation occured to arrest you. Maybe you're not telling the whole story.
And I don't know how you can get arrested based just on her allegation. The police should need some type of evidence and can't just go on an unsubstantiated claim. All they could do is question you, and shouldn't arrest you on a he said she said with no witnesses or evidence. This would be false arrest. They have to have good cause to show a law violation occured to arrest you. Maybe you're not telling the whole story.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
jtrain 289
Senior Don Juan
they have it on video but the video doesnt look like anything serious just me like chasing her and dancing around her but not touching her ti also shows like 5 other people around its not like its only me and her.
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If the OP is correct, the kudos for the OP for being a judicial martyr for his beliefs of trying to connect with someone by dancing with them. The problem is if you are dealing with too many women, is that you don't know which one will be a land-mine.
I think that the state should be sued for malicious prosecution. It is stories like this which undermine faith in the opposite sex -- but it's nice if you can maintain that trust in the face of these difficulties. March on soldier.
I think that the state should be sued for malicious prosecution. It is stories like this which undermine faith in the opposite sex -- but it's nice if you can maintain that trust in the face of these difficulties. March on soldier.
if they got that **** on video then you'll get off. did u actually go to jail? if so sue the state and sue her for defamationjtrain 289 said:they have it on video but the video doesnt look like anything serious just me like chasing her and dancing around her but not touching her ti also shows like 5 other people around its not like its only me and her.