I had some problems with one of my LTRs. Her arousal patterns were unsatisfactory and unreliable. I tried a variety of techniques because, I was frankly fed up. In fact I was so annoyed I would have tried anything.
I seem to have had success with one particular technique, but I'm not sure whether it could be scientifically verified. As part of my current approach I also use what is known as guided imagery in the text books. It seems to be the only way I can get a reliable good response. So you don't have to look it up, it means some kind of mental imagery fantasy which is controlled by an outside source, in this case me.
I have to tell her to close her eyes and imagine that she is in the back seat of my car having various things done to her. At the same time, I give her physical stimulation. Without the imagery, the physical stimulation does not work. The back seat of the car is like a fetish for her. This GI is done in bed though.
Has anyone else used this technique, and what results have you been able to achieve? I am able to achieve consistent full arousal and subsequent orgasm with this technique on her, but otherwise there are problems.
I seem to have had success with one particular technique, but I'm not sure whether it could be scientifically verified. As part of my current approach I also use what is known as guided imagery in the text books. It seems to be the only way I can get a reliable good response. So you don't have to look it up, it means some kind of mental imagery fantasy which is controlled by an outside source, in this case me.
I have to tell her to close her eyes and imagine that she is in the back seat of my car having various things done to her. At the same time, I give her physical stimulation. Without the imagery, the physical stimulation does not work. The back seat of the car is like a fetish for her. This GI is done in bed though.
Has anyone else used this technique, and what results have you been able to achieve? I am able to achieve consistent full arousal and subsequent orgasm with this technique on her, but otherwise there are problems.