Around what age do you become too old for this life?

[Good Gao]

I know we all glamorize the life of sleeping with a lot of different women and things such as dating apps, going out to bars/clubs, and that sort of stuff kinda come with the category. At times though, I kinda feel like quantity and racking up lay counts is a young man's game.

Around what age do you start to feel out of place in that sort of life?

I feel like after your 20s, it sort of becomes a bit strange to most if you're still chasing women and not going more of the commitment route.

 

[bigneil]

I just turned 47 and I have never had an easier time seducing women. Even gorgeous 18 year old women (as I did yesterday). Or attractive 48 year old women (as I did Friday). Any women. I know my days are numbered, but in general a man is in his prime from age 35-55, peaking in total power around age 50.

 

[devilkingx2]

"as long as you don't turn your back on youth, it will never end." - Might Duy
(source: Naruto manga chapter 668: The Beginning of the Crimson Spring )

 

[Urbanyst]

I stopped going out to bars and clubs on weekends a little after 30. It wasn't because of my age, it just stopped being fun and started feeling like a stupid waste of money that wasn't worth my time. I'll still go to bars and lounges for happy hours during the week and special occasions on weekends though. I've found I meet more down to earth women at happy hours on weekdays anyway and its easier to talk to them. But going clubbing just to hook up with trashy women has lost its luster for me.

When it comes to dating lots of different women.. I think you can do that as long as you want. I would like a LTR, but the market is sh*t today. I want a woman who actually acts like a lady. Not the arrogant egomaniacs running around today. In the meantime.. gotta satisfy that sex drive, so casual dating and plate spinning is the way to go for the foreseeable future.

 

[Red Legg]

I turned 46 in April and am in the best LTR that I have had in years,before that I found plate spinning to be much easier than my younger years,women love a seasoned man.Who is the oldest DJ on SS ? maybe he can chime in on how it is in your 50's or 60's ?

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

No doubt men of different ages/ maturity appreciate different things in women. I think there is a tendency with age to move away from chasing women in general to having the odd one, which you may find more valuable, gravitate to you. In game terms, it is moving away from outer to inner 'game'.

Also, us older gents have seen a cultural shift. We were brought up in a more conservative era where the 10% were sexually liberated, and the rest were influenced by a traditional culture. Thanks to the sexual and psychedelic revolution of the sixties, that equation has been turned on its head; now the 10% have traditional values with the bulk of women today sexually permissive.

The older guys here are probably more interested in discussing the more general aspects of the relations between the sexes. And you see the younger chaps sometimes complain about a lack of specifics, details, field reports and the such. And yet, I think all would agree that it is a typically manly attribute to have a logical and rational interest in such matters. For it is in being rational that we can attain some semblance of control over our natural desires... and thus not be at the whim of women.

 

[Trump]

I turned 46 in April and am in the best LTR that I have had in years,before that I found plate spinning to be much easier than my younger years,women love a seasoned man.Who is the oldest DJ on SS ? maybe he can chime in on how it is in your 50's or 60's ?

That's interesting. I'm in my late 30s and have more assets I know what to do with, and it's much much much more difficult now than when I was in my 20s with little assets. I once had 3 dates in one night in my 20s. I had good looking girls calling me left and right, coming over, asking for dates. I had 2 good looking girls asking me to marry them in my 20s. It was ridiculous.

Now, with much more experience and game and tons and tons of assets and more money I can handle, it is very very very difficult.

Girls value age a lot more than anything else.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

Girls value age a lot more than anything else.

Which is why you want a woman.

 

[Julian]

That's interesting. I'm in my late 30s and have more assets I know what to do with, and it's much much much more difficult now than when I was in my 20s with little assets. I once had 3 dates in one night in my 20s. I had good looking girls calling me left and right, coming over, asking for dates. I had 2 good looking girls asking me to marry them in my 20s. It was ridiculous.

Now, with much more experience and game and tons and tons of assets and more money I can handle, it is very very very difficult.

Girls value age a lot more than anything else.

this is a very very sad post to read. what do you think is the reason? how do you look for your age? do you believe it has something to do with how the game and how times have changed? i feel like with assets like you say you have, if you were jacked an handsome you can get women at any age (imo).

 

[Von]

I am late 28

Been on the V carousel for 2-3 years

Now, I am tired of chasing girls... or Talking to girls.

I want à Woman!

Plate or not.... chasing and spinning can get old.

Now, I am in a LTR for the past 3months.. gotta admit.... I am happy.

People say here: 3,6,9 months its alot... yet for me... it feels like yesterday.

When does the Plating/Alpha-Alone/Spinning gets old...?

Its à mental state really... so guy never get over it and are alone up to their 60's still spinning plate and chasing girls.

While their friends look at them...like they "immature" on that part of their life.

Trump had à good post and Columbus an awesome reply.

You come at à point where you go from à BOY to a MAN.

Man= have his career, his place, his focus/passion, building assets, society status, know what you want with the females

So you tired of dating immature girls looking for fun... you start seeking women.
Female with more substance and nice trait.

Like Urbanyst also said: at one point in your life... clubs become too noisy, lounge maybe too crowd.

Your biology hit you: less tolérance to alcool, heavy noise, slower reflex, little recovery on hangover etc...

At 28, I can't club, I dont enjoy chasing the girls, even my central downtown place is starting to feel too noisy (because i have concerts and fireworks just in front... every day of the summer)... what I enjoy? Social activities: Squash, Dancing... Sipping à ****tail in a lounge and talk the the people next to me, focus on my career... the girl is an addon (like often said here)... except girl is too immature.. I want à woman who knows where she is going in life... to move forward and build assets while having fun.

In our modern âge: 35 years old might be the "average" tipping point.

The important part is not when you begin or when you end.. but what you do in between.

Some guys will always want to have a girl
Some will go for the woman
Some will go from the girl to the woman

I believe its à mental state and usually the shift starts when you feel "settle" in life

 

[Red Legg]

That's interesting. I'm in my late 30s and have more assets I know what to do with, and it's much much much more difficult now than when I was in my 20s with little assets. I once had 3 dates in one night in my 20s. I had good looking girls calling me left and right, coming over, asking for dates. I had 2 good looking girls asking me to marry them in my 20s. It was ridiculous.

Now, with much more experience and game and tons and tons of assets and more money I can handle, it is very very very difficult.

Girls value age a lot more than anything else.

I disagree with your post on girls valuing age...it has not affected me one fvckin ioda I have posted pics of my hot blonde GF 's on here it is all in your head my friend...

 

[ubercat]

Agree. I get what I ve always got. I guess from an average Joe's point of view I ve had abundance as I ve often had 2 or 3 women in rotation. I m 6 2 which helps but not much in the looks department so I ve always had to put some effort in. My notch count s probably 50+ and they haven't planted me yet so girls have turned up reasonably regularly in my life. It would have been higher of course but I like LTRs. I like OLD as a supplement. I ve picked up plenty of crazy women in real too so I don't see much difference. I look at OLD like job hunting. U spam the world with your resume if there's some interest start a conversation and see what sticks. The point is for an average Joe social circle won't provide a date every week. OLD can. If u also have the ability to cold approach you have 3 channels going and so you're never going to have much of a drought. Maybe @Scaramouche can weigh in. He's the oldest DJ I know here who's still plating. I'm curious too. Like most guys have stayed pretty active I look younger than my age so I can easily pick up women in their thirties and forties. At that age they're still interested in male company. I think at some point woman who aren't married probably just give up.

 

[Trump]

I disagree with your post on girls valuing age...it has not affected me one fvckin ioda I have posted pics of my hot blonde GF 's on here it is all in your head my friend...

OK fair enough. Whatever makes you comfortable. It's just been my experience.

 

[Trump]

this is a very very sad post to read. what do you think is the reason? how do you look for your age? do you believe it has something to do with how the game and how times have changed? i feel like with assets like you say you have, if you were jacked an handsome you can get women at any age (imo).

I look younger for my age. It has nothing to do with game. It has nothing to do with assets. Women will look at the assets and say "oh, nice" or "wow, I'm impressed." And move on. Women today don't seek security, stability, comfort like they did. They can get all that stuff by themselves. Today they seek novelty, thrills, excitement.

Give you an example; was interested in this good looking 30 year old but she was taller than me. She knew the assets I have and didn't care. She went with a guy who was more educated than me, I have a Bachelors, he has a PhD, a little younger than me, and taller, he was 6'3. I would guess I have 200x more assets than he does and she knew it, but SHE DIDNT CARE.

Another girl I really really liked knew the assets I have and DIDNT care. She went with someone a bit younger with less money.

So men, don't worry about money. Women DONT CARE. An extra few zeros in your bank account means nothing compared to a few inches in height or a few years off your age. You can always always always make money. You can't get your height or youth back.

 

[Julian]

I look younger for my age. It has nothing to do with game. It has nothing to do with assets. Women will look at the assets and say "oh, nice" or "wow, I'm impressed." And move on. Women today don't seek security, stability, comfort like they did. They can get all that stuff by themselves. Today they seek novelty, thrills, excitement.

Give you an example; was interested in this good looking 30 year old but she was taller than me. She knew the assets I have and didn't care. She went with a guy who was more educated than me, I have a Bachelors, he has a PhD, a little younger than me, and taller, he was 6'3. I would guess I have 200x more assets than he does and she knew it, but SHE DIDNT CARE.

Another girl I really really liked knew the assets I have and DIDNT care. She went with someone a bit younger with less money.

So men, don't worry about money. Women DONT CARE. An extra few zeros in your bank account means nothing compared to a few inches in height or a few years off your age. You can always always always make money. You can't get your height or youth back.

damn this post hits home hard. thanks i really needed that. making the most of my youth!

 

[guru1000]

I look younger for my age. It has nothing to do with game. It has nothing to do with assets. Women will look at the assets and say "oh, nice" or "wow, I'm impressed." And move on. Women today don't seek security, stability, comfort like they did. They can get all that stuff by themselves. Today they seek novelty, thrills, excitement.

Give you an example; was interested in this good looking 30 year old but she was taller than me. She knew the assets I have and didn't care. She went with a guy who was more educated than me, I have a Bachelors, he has a PhD, a little younger than me, and taller, he was 6'3. I would guess I have 200x more assets than he does and she knew it, but SHE DIDNT CARE.

Another girl I really really liked knew the assets I have and DIDNT care. She went with someone a bit younger with less money.

So men, don't worry about money. Women DONT CARE. An extra few zeros in your bank account means nothing compared to a few inches in height or a few years off your age. You can always always always make money. You can't get your height or youth back.

You're misinformed. You are not old. You look "old." What I mean by "looking old," is your appearance is not kept, fresh, or impeccable.

I'm older than you dating professional models and hot women in their mid-twenties. The difference is my appearance (in my 40s) is impeccable, more so than in my 20s and 30s. Keeping your appearance impeccable (especially over 35) costs money, so yes, money is very important.

Post a pic of yourself, and I will identify exactly where you lack. And it's not age.