"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Arnold Schwarzenegger: Life's 6 Rules to Success

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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BingoBango

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Fvcking fantastic clip. Arnie's accent, movies, and muscles may be comical. But he's certainly someone who knows well the principles of success. Yeh he was the best bodybuilder winning Mr Olympia 5 times in a row, but he was also studying to get his business degree part time.

Academic success, as well as success in real estate and business, bodybulding, then hollywood and later politics and further business interests. Definitely someone who knows what he's talking about.
 

Warrior74

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I have his rules printed out on my bedroom wall next to my whiteboard. When I wake up in the morning the first thing I see is the 6 rules and my list of things to get done.
 
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