You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
try as i might, i can't find any faults with this post. i would agree with just about everything in it...and i thought i was the only wise one on here.Teflon_Mcgee said:As a former Marine I've seen the countless times. But there is one common denominator with all of it: Military men marry very low quality women.
It is so ridiculous how low these guys drop their standards. I have a few theories as to why.
I think out of all my buddies' wives, there is ONE that i would consider worthy of my time.
A good woman will not cheat (okay, all woman will cheat under the right circumstances). Military wives typically (atleast of junior ranks) are not good women.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Lol...man...Im so glad Im not married. Yeah though...I knew some people that gone over with me who got ****ed over pretty bad especially moneywise.sparky0000 said:try as i might, i can't find any faults with this post. i would agree with just about everything in it...and i thought i was the only wise one on here.
p.s. don't f*** it up with a bad post.
I personally believe that ANYONE that sleeps with the wife of a man that is fighting for this Country (and thankfully keeping us from a Draft)...should be drafted and shipped to Iraq. Same goes with the cheater (regardless of the sex).Rudy_TubeSteak said:Anyone watch "The Unit" where the blonde wife is cheating on her soldier husband with another soldier.
Happens all the time...They cheat and lie and infiltrate the front lines faster than IEDs
Why is that cheaters are more common with army partners? I've been with 2 soldier's girlfriends (even though I didnt know that in the first place, I thought they were single) in a very short time. I know another friend who is rearranging bedposts with another army wife.
Is it their mentality that got these types of girls to chase a soldier in the first place? Is is the long service leave? The excitement?
I know that if I know the girl has been with a soldier, least she'll know she will be getting a quick action of what she was looking in the first place, Wham Bam thank you Ma'am. Thats about all she's going to get.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
No, No, No - it is simply because they are hors!!!Rudy_TubeSteak said:Is it their mentality that got these types of girls to chase a soldier in the first place? Is is the long service leave? The excitement?I.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.