"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Arms

jakethasnake

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Arms. I train them about 3 times a week, for the past 3 months. I don't seem to be seeing much progress, only very slight grow in my bicep (flexed) measurements (1/4 - 1/2 inch).


I'm starting to think that I've reached or have gotten close to my limit with bicep growth. I am a natural ectomorph, with sinewy, slender limbs. Think the build of Micheal Jordan, though not as long (I'm shorter, a bit stockier).


I'm thinking about switching 85% of my attention to my triceps instead, to promote overall arm growth. Keep in mind that I have no intention of trying to grow 20" biceps. I want a sculpted, lean look, no bulky arms. I want to look normal. 15" or so would be nice, right now I'm around 13.5".


Am I training them too much or often (3 times a week, about 3 sets of 6 for three different bicep curl exercises)? Is there a way to "shock" your bicep/overall arm into growing?


Comments would be appreciated. ;)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The reason they're not growing is because they are overtrained as fukk.

once a week is all you need.
 

jakethasnake

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As I had suspected.

Okay, I can do dumbell curls with good form with 35-37.5 pounders. If I get really pumped up I can do 40 pounds with decent form. I do about three sets of 6 reps for each arm in an exercise. If I train once a week, I presume I would need to hit my arms really fvckin hard. Should I try with 42.5 or 45 pounds, at the risk of a slight compromise on form?


Thanks Diesel.
 

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also, keep in mind that in order for your bis and tris to grow, you need to gain weight. you wont get 19" guns if youre hovering at 5'8" 160lbs. diesel made a great "guide to bulking" thread; check it out. make sure youre taking in enough calories and protein to support weight/muscle gain. bluntly, you need to get big everywhere to have big guns.

and its not always about obliterating a muscle to the point of injury. use a weight that you can get decent form for 6-8 reps; a couple of sets. make slow, yet consistant progression over the weeks and the muscle will grow.
 

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Thanks for the comments, bull.


Incidently, I'm about 5'9" and 160 pounds. I want to be 175 in time. No bigger though. I play recreational sports, and I want to maintain my mobility and skillz while building up strength and some size. I don't want to be "that short guy with a neck like this ". :eek:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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enkai

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you should do about 8 sets for biceps, anymore and you'll overtrain them, unless youre taking vitamin S, triceps you can hit up 12 sets, don't do them on chest day cuz they're preexhaused from bench and other pushing movements, therefore you can overtrain them easly, and forarms you can do once or twice a week cuz you use them everyday, so they recover a bit faster then other muscles, peace
 
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