"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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hey i got this problem and i dont know anybody else i can ask this problem about. ok well whenever i do anything that requires strength my hands or arms start shaking a lot! and sometimes i dont even have to be using a lot of strenght, by just holding a piece of paper, my hands start shaking a lot! i stoped lighting weights just for that problem a long time ago. and i still dont see any better. i dont want to go to the doctor cause they too expensive! so just tell me if i can do like some exercises or something cause this cant really help in my game if my hands start shaking when im talking to girls! and even when im holding hands wit my gf they start shaking, but its not that im nervous cause they most of the times shaking, even though i aint doing anything. soo, help please! OHH YEA!!! also my hands sweat a lot. can i do something about it?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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most people who have hands and arms which shake drink too much alcohol, if you don't drink alcohol though then I have idea why your hands shake
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i dont got insurance! thats y i dont want to go cause its gonna cost a lot! and i drink, but not too much! last time i drank was last month.
 

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The only time my hands have shaken involuntarily is if i lifted to often, but it would be accompanied by a lot of ligament pain
 

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you might have a nerve problem or something....i can realate to my hands shaking but that would be after a 6 round boxing match, and then a couple of rounds on the punching bag. But if you say that this happens even when youre not excercising and it happens even during lifting light objects, its got to be something more serious. are you sure theyre just shaking, and its not like spasm or twitching? do your hands feel weak or numb?
 

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yea they shake, and well, sometimes i feel my hands kinda weak, but not too weak! its cause i think and i know that i can do a lil bit better and lift more heavy stuff but i cant. but its not like really really weak, just a lil. but yea my hands shake a lot. not like in there was a earthquake or something but if i lift my hand straight in a horizantal way, i can see that its shaking a lot.
 

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It might be hyperthyroidism. It causes tremors in the hands. I've got it and when ever I push my muscles too hard, I get tremors.

Very Basicly, if you have it, your metabolism runs too fast. Now, this is not a good thing and it will not help you loose weight. It just burns out your system if it is not treated.

You can take beta blockers to stop the tremor and slow down any symptoms you might have. Google hyperthyroidism and see if you have any symptoms that match up.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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well i have most of the symptoms! i cant sleep right, tremor, i been losing weight while i been eating a lot, it seem kinda strange but i did, and sometimes i feel rapid heartbeat. hey so wat happens if i have this for a long time? i couldnt find anything that said something about that. thanks
 

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lol well i told my mom about that and she panicked so now she wants to go to the doctor, even tho she has to pay lol, well if its not it, well thanks anyway for telling me something to tell her and make her take me lol.
 

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A general practiciner should be able to find it without too much cost. To verify, you'll need to get the big tests done. He can perscribe beta blockers. If it is hyperthyroidsim, that is.
 
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