“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Arm Yourself with Scientific DJ Knowledge: Face, Attraction, and Selection

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I saw that, but how is that supposed to help us? Unless we get facial reconstructive surgery we can't change our faces :rolleyes:
 

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For those who can't read the full article (with explanations for what constitutes "attractiveness"--which is correlated to facial symmetry), I have a few quotes from the same article:

"Our results show that highly attractive faces correspond with high-quality semen samples. This is the first direct evidence of a relationship between the attractiveness of man and his physiological reproductive quality. Similar results have been observed in other animals (Birkhead & Fletcher, 1995 and Roldán et al., 1998), supporting our findings. This would suggest that there might be a link between genes that determine facial phenotype and those that regulate spermatogenesis....

"...it has been shown that men whose faces were horizontally asymmetrical were more depressed and more emotionally labile, while those whose faces were vertically asymmetrical were more impulsive (Shackelford & Larsen, 1997). Moreover, facial asymmetry may be a more reliable sign of poor health in men than in women (Shackelford & Larsen, 1997)."

There you go...

I found another article on the hip-waist and waist-shoulder ratios and how they correlate to sexual behavior. If you guys are interested in some real scientific DJ knowledge, let me know.
 

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well, maybe we can't help it. Or maybe environmental factors can change the perceptions of women. The scientists in that article suggest that future research should look into how women from different cultures respond to facial characteristics. Maybe women respond differently. But as far as I can tell, all of you DJs on the board speak of women and HBs irrespective of countries/races...
 

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Well, to me this article is just stating the obvious - that physical attraction is part of evolution. It allows the species to select strong mates. Obviously we can still do things to improve our physical appearance - basic grooming can go a long way ;) I think its better to focus on things that we can change though. Case in point - I'm losing my hair at a young age and I can't do a thing about it. I CAN go workout, get a better wardrobe, etc. Much better to focus on the things we can change IMO.
 

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I agree with you. There is something that is determined and something that is not. Although I think it's still good to know the limits within which we can exercise our agency.
 
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