"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Arizona shooter - another George Soldini?

MatureDJ

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http://www.prisonplanet.com/was-loughner-in-love-with-congresswoman-giffords.html

We now know that 22-year-old Loughner was in contact with Giffords since at least 2007, having attended a Congress on Your Corner event and subsequently receiving a thank you letter from Giffords’ office that was discovered by police in a safe at Loughner’s home on which Loughner had scrawled “Die Cops” and “Die *****,” along with handwritten notes by Loughner stating that he had “planned ahead” and that the rampage was “my assassination”.
http://gothamist.com/2011/01/12/police_uncover_more_unnerving_detai.php

Loughner complains about problems finding a job, being rejected by women, and a general, fundamental aggression.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Warrior74

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I think the type of guys who shoot up schools, or kill their parents, or pull crap like this are usually the type of guys who will have a hard time getting women. Now I don't know if it's the chicken or the egg (lack of women making men crazy, or crazy scaring off women), but it seems to be a general link between the two. In any case, learning how to be socially well adjusted and being able to pull women is good thing for society.
 

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Apart from the fact that these two individuals participated in a mass kill, they have nothing in common. Soldini was a lonely virgin who hated women because he could not get any women. Loughner on the other hand, though metally dillusional, had girlfriend and was doing well.
 
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