"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Kidd

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Hello. Almost 7 months has gone by since I have found this site.. and it has helped alot. Not only with girls.. it's helped me with life in general. This year I have matured and learned alot. I have made a huge jump from where I was before.

-learned to take full responsibility for my actions
-overcame laziness
-not scared to follow my own ideas
-not scared of change, to try new things and expand my self
-competely comfortable with cold approaches
-alot more fun, optimistic and determined
-in much better physical shape

But it doesent end here. Summer's come.. school is over in almost a week. I made a list of things I need to do by the time next school year starts.. I want to really better myself. I want to enter the school next time, and have my classmates go "wow Kidd, you've really changed". Also, I am not going too much into going after girls. Goals first.

-continue bulking
-read and write more (big one)
-take my game to the next level. Be able to get a fvck close from a cold approach.
-get alot better at my songwriting and guitar-playing ability
-start a new band and get something going
-learn to sing better
-improve my athletic ability.. get ready for the swim team
-improve my charistma
-get a summer job, being dependant on parents for cash sucks
-party more, meet more people, make new friends
-spend more time with family
-take driving school and get my permit

Well, I have much to do. I will keep a personal journal of my activities, and sometimes I will post entries in this thread.

Time to rise.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Oops, sorry. Posted in the wrong forum. Would the mods kindly move the post to the HS forum and delete this entry?
 
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