"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Kidd

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Hello. Almost 7 months has gone by since I have found this site.. and it has helped alot. Not only with girls.. it's helped me with life in general. This year I have matured and learned alot. I have made a huge jump from where I was before.

-learned to take full responsibility for my actions
-overcame laziness
-not scared to follow my own ideas
-not scared of change, to try new things and expand my self
-competely comfortable with cold approaches
-alot more fun, optimistic and determined
-in much better physical shape

But it doesent end here. Summer's come.. school is over in almost a week. I made a list of things I need to do by the time next school year starts.. I want to really better myself. I want to enter the school next time, and have my classmates go "wow Kidd, you've really changed". Also, I am not going too much into going after girls. Goals first.

-continue bulking
-read and write more (big one)
-take my game to the next level. Be able to get a fvck close from a cold approach.
-get alot better at my songwriting and guitar-playing ability
-start a new band and get something going
-learn to sing better
-improve my athletic ability.. get ready for the swim team
-improve my charistma
-get a summer job, being dependant on parents for cash sucks
-party more, meet more people, make new friends
-spend more time with family
-take driving school and get my permit

Well, I have much to do. I will keep a personal journal of my activities, and sometimes I will post entries in this thread.

Time to rise.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Kidd

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Oops, sorry. Posted in the wrong forum. Would the mods kindly move the post to the HS forum and delete this entry?
 
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