Argumentive with gf

[roscoe davis]

Why are you arguing with a female in the first place , it shows low value on your part.

Your right it does show low value; because it shows I can’t control myself by displaying my feelings in a non cool way. It’s what I’m focusing on with myself. But at times a part of me just feels like sabotaging the moment and burning the situation down to the ground.

 

[ohrein]

True again.

It just sucks. My last relationship; this happened. So I’m still the process of transforming.
I think I’m in the slight stage of hating women right now. This is normal?

Yes, everyone goes through a bitter and resentful stage of unplugging. Face it head on rather than embracing it. Being angry at a situation is simply a lens with which you view things through.

 

[JohnChops]

Your right it does show low value; because it shows I can’t control myself by displaying my feelings in a non cool way. It’s what I’m focusing on with myself. But at times a part of me just feels like sabotaging the moment and burning the situation down to the ground.

I feel you man, it's hard to get under control but worth it in the end.

 

[Reykhel]

Also she’s horrible with being punctual; and on a few occasions has made plans with me then when I finish work and am looking forward to seeing her, she’ll cancel the plan last second cuz she’s tired; even though she was off for the whole evening.

yeah this is not a very considerate woman and it's unacceptable behavior. Cancelling at the last minute when you are ready and looking forward to going........fvck that. Time to think about what's going on with your boundaries.

If she’s seeing or with someone else then why wouldn’t she just end it

what does a cat do with a mouse before she kills it..?

....she plays with. toys around with.

She'll move on quicker because it's been over in her mind long before it's officially over. She's had the time to digest it and process it and be good with it. That's why she'll come across like ice at the end.