Arguing

[This Times For Real]

Not sure if this belongs here or anything else

Hey. I have a question about arguing. i know that arguing isnt exactly a dj thing to do but some times in high school I think its impossible to avoid. The thing is I really suck at arguing. I cant find good enough dissess on people to win. Can give any tips on how I can win an argument or get someone to f|_|ck off without making myself look like a little *****.

 

[Caveman]

I am not exactly sure what you mean but I am guessing someone could start picking on you and how to respond to that?

Best way to go is ****y & funny and take his comment as a joke, and joke back. I am saying to not take his insults or comments as a personal attack.

If you really don't have a clue how to respond or what to say, just look at him/her with a semi-bored expression, yawn, turn around and walk away slowly. (Only do this when you absolutely don't know what to say)

I think maybe you should give a little more background on the situation though if you want better examples of what to say in certain situations.

Either way, don't let the insult bother you in any way and show them you are not bothered. This will make you appear more confident.

 

[dbot]

Arguments of substance can be handled well simply by making your point. The only advice I can give you is to know what you're talking about.

Verbal bashing should never happen. And if any high school student is lame enough to yell random insults at someone else, then I doubt anyone considers them "cool" anyway. If the insults weren't random, then you provoked them

 

[Vincent]

Arguing is the most pointless form of conversation.

You can't change peoples minds, you won't pursuade them, you end up just making yourself mad, and the other person mad.

So why do it? There are no good disses, there are no good responses to Solve an arguement.

What you do is try to dissolve it, break it up, don't waste your time with an argument.

The next time someone says something to you, just blow it off.

Ex:
"Your a fag!"
"Whatever you believe"

"Your wrong about so/so!"
"eh whatever works for you"

I like what caveman said. Just make a joke out of it. Don't get insulted and don't prod, that'll get the arguement broken up faster than you can say, thanks you guys for your help.

 

[This Times For Real]

What if they dont go away with it when u say whatever u say etc?

 

[Vincent]

keep saying it, they'll either get really pissed off, but they know you won't do anything, so they'll get sick of it.

Or they'll just get sick of it, and give up.

Either way you win the easiest battle ever.