"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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argue with female colleagues today

LittleBigOne

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Today during break at work i got in an argue with two female colleagues of mine.
One of the woman complained about her bf because he didn't do anything special for her during Valentines day. She was whining and whining. I could have moved away but i didn't. Then she told us that he never did anything special in all of the eight months that they are in a relationship and that men are so inlogical.
I asked her why she expected something special during Valentines day since he never did anything special and told her to accept it or deal with it and that she might be the one who is inlogical. She got angry then and her colleague told me i could not say something like that.
By the way, i do not have feelings for this woman.
Lately i have no patience with such kind of woman who complain about their relationship. I hear it too much. How would you handle such whiner!? Do i need to shut my mouth?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You can say what you like and you raised a good question, if some "princess" decides to take a puerile holiday like Valentines Day seriously then she deserves to get. I want doesn't get. How would I deal with a whiner? I'd tell her to f*ck off from my face with her b*tching.
 

Alle_Gory

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In response to them *****ing about your honesty:

"Well I'm sorry you feel that way about what I said. If you don't like me to be honest and truthful with you, maybe I shouldn't talk to you at all."
 
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LittleB, if you post in the boys forum, you get boy's responses. Better stick with the mature guys next time.

Don't double post. Where else besides here and the mature man forum did you post this too for Pete's sake?
 

LittleBigOne

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You are right. I was writing this thread with the idea of posting it at the Don Juan forum. But i posted 'wrong' in the mature forum. So i posted onc more in the Don Juan forum. Now i see i get more responses in the mature forum. So indeed thats better.
Thanks for the tip! Next time one forum ofcourse.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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