Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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ArgH!

Cloud-uk

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I'm getting so pissed off. This ratty little kid at school, nice bloke and everything, but surely an effective anti-pull, just pulled the seriously hot girl who practicaly rejected me last week. I don't get that at all, he did it from a 2 year friendship with the girl too!

If this guy has game I believe in god. And his power to spite me. ****.

I am so bitter, I don't know how drunk this girl was but she better have been in a coma. I've got half a mind to smack her just for confusing me. Argh! Sorry need to vent. Why the **** do I care anyway? I'm going to break his neck if he starts screwing her, just to get the world back into balance.

I really dislike people.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Cloud-uk
I'm getting so pissed off. This ratty little kid at school, nice bloke and everything, but surely an effective anti-pull, just pulled the seriously hot girl who practicaly rejected me last week. I don't get that at all, he did it from a 2 year friendship with the girl too!

If this guy has game I believe in god. And his power to spite me. ****.

I am so bitter, I don't know how drunk this girl was but she better have been in a coma. I've got half a mind to smack her just for confusing me. Argh! Sorry need to vent. Why the **** do I care anyway? I'm going to break his neck if he starts screwing her, just to get the world back into balance.

I really dislike people.
its called low self-esteem chicks.
 

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Don't base your success on a comparison with another person. Maybe he has some redeeming quality, maybe she was desperate, maybe she just needed a good lay or something.

From my perspective, the more you let it bother you, the bigger issue it becomes.

As they say in poker, you have to know when to hold them and when to fold them, and you should save your time and fold them with this chick.
 

Cloud-uk

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^^^^ damn straight. Eugh, what a waste of some curves...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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