Are you the reflection of women you get with?

[Oxide]

It hit me when i read a good post recently, where i heard this:

"When you girl cheats on you, you feel like you wernt good enough for her, because you placed so much value into her, she was as good as you could get, this is a horrible mindset, dont ever place your value on the type of women you are with"

Props to the poster first of all.



I thought about this a bit more, i remember talking to some guys saying that if you dress preppy, you pull preppy girls. You are athletic, your chances to have an athletic girl are better, ect...


So, gentelman, do you think that the women you have sex and relationships with are the reflections of who you are?

If not, explain why not..



edit. Now you can read the full quote, for those wondering why i liked it so much


The poll is at 4-4.. interesting..

 

[rgeere]

Yes, if you are abusive, then she will be abusive.

On the other hand if you are non-abusive, she will be non-abusive.

 

[dietzcoi]

rgeere

What planet are you from? The planet of perfect women?

Your statement is BS.

Sorry, no offense intended.

Dietzcoi

 

[DJ_Dud]

Nope, i dont think so. Me and all my ex's are all different people and i can say without hesitation, that nothing of her rubbed off onto me and vice versa.

 

[MetalFortress]

No. In many ways, opposites attract, cuz they complement each other.

 

[DrSoSuave]

There's a saying that I find true. You tell people about yourself by the friends you have.

 

[Fred Da Head]

Originally posted by DrSoSuave
There's a saying that I find true. You tell people about yourself by the friends you have.

That reminds me of a quote (approx, don't have it on hand) "Don't judge people by the friends they have. Judas had irreprochable friends."

 

[Kaine]

When you girl cheats on you, you feel like you wernt good enough for her, because you placed so much value into her, she was as good as you could get

This is a weak weak weak mindset.

Even if you were a pretty lame BF, there is no need to cheat. Any person with a sense of integrity should AT LEAST end the existing relationship before persuing another.


My mindset:


She cheated, she disrespected me, a person of that calibre is not deserving of my attention. I push the problem and the negative energy back to the person that made the transgression.

You should too.


Kaine

 

[S.S.N. 318]

Originally posted by Kaine
I push the problem and the negative energy back to the person that made the transgression.

You should too.


Kaine

real talk cuzz...fa realz...one

 

[aBAzLLnA]

Personally, I aim very very high. The females I pull are few and far apart simply because of the quality. And the traits I look for in a woman are traits that I usually possess, or desire to possess. So, yes, the women I deal with are a reflection of who I am.

 

[Oxide]

The way i think about this

I am attractive
I work our regularly (good body)
I am intelligent
I am sane
I dont smoke
I rarely drink
I have a good personality


So why the hell should i want a woman who cant keep up with the same things i keep up with? Why should i settle for uglies/dumber girls.. simply cause they put out?

Well, not anymore.. Honestly, show me a girl who fits the above categories, becuase so far too many girls i meet have something fukked up with them..

 

[Oxide]

Alright, after giving it some thought, and looking at my own experiences and the people's i know...this is my decision:



You are not necessarily the reflection of the person you are dating. If you are a jock, she doesnt have to be one. What happens, however, is that people with similar interests/styles connect easier, so forming realtionships with them becomes easier as well..


In reality, it is all about you and your choice. If you are a model, and decide to date a fat chick for the hell of it, you can. If you decide to date a goth girl, you can. However, it will be harder for you to date sexy girls if you are not blessed with looks, meaning people who quit (i am looking at you punks!) will go back to dating chicks they can actually get without trying harder ( means less attractive girls)... they will end up with girls similar to themselves.


To finish this, here is how you do it if you are tired of settling for mediocrocity. First, Aim High! Do not lower your standards... go for what you want and not what you think you need (pu$$y).
Second, get yourself together, so it is easier to accomplish results. Tons of self improvement info here, read it.


Go get em tigers, and for those who are sheep, remember, when you tell us how you "fvck closed that 350lb elephant" the other night, we are not going to sympathize.


-Oxide

 

[rgeere]

Originally posted by dietzcoi
rgeere

What planet are you from? The planet of perfect women?

Your statement is BS.

Sorry, no offense intended.

Dietzcoi

No, the planet of perfect men

Unless of course she is abusive, then you need to ditch her and find a nice non-abusive one.