Swampcamel
Don Juan
Maybe the majority of women if you live in LA or Manhattan. It's a lifestyle to be a b1tch or a d1ck in those places.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Well, when you're only specualting on something you are usually wrong. :yes:Syrio said:I wasn't there so you're right that I don't actually know - I was speculating. I mean it's possible that she was trying to take advantage of him but I just kind of doubt it. I suspect that your view of the situation was a little biased, but whatever that's besides the point.
You are all over the place contradicting yourself. I've never said all women do it. Hot women use their looks to take advantage of men. Chicks in school do this do guys to help them get good grades. Women get what they want out of men, then after the men provide what they needed, the chicks get rid of them. I've seen them do this stuff. I've heard them laugh about it after they did it. So, I know what some of them do. Why are you trying to deny it?Syrio said:Like I said, I definitely agree that some women do what you are saying. In my experience though, the vast majority do not. Is this really so common in your life that you feel it's accurate to believe that all (or even the majority) of women try to take advantage of men by faking sadness or manipulating them in some other way on a regular basis? I guess a lot of women do this sometimes but in my experience this is rarely an issue. If it ever is an issue, it's usually very recognizable and easy to fix.
Dude, this will happen in every town or city that has a woman who thinks she is above everybody.Swampcamel said:Maybe the majority of women if you live in LA or Manhattan. It's a lifestyle to be a b1tch or a d1ck in those places.
You argue in circles and contradict yourself. You doubt that it happens, then you semi agree with me, then you go back to your original opinion.Syrio said:Then I acknowledged that it is possible that she "used" him but I think you are probably telling a very biased version of the story.
however, suggests that you were referring to at least the majority of women
I've said nothing that contradicts myself. You should go back and read.
This statement, in addition to most of what you were writing, implies that you are saying the vast majority of women do this.
It's not like the majority of women are maliciously exploiting men all the time.
I never said anything that implied I was doubting my original words. Go back and read dude, I said that it is rude to refuse a request like that. Then I acknowledged that it is possible that she "used" him but I think you are probably telling a very biased version of the story.rascal99v said:Well, when you're only specualting on something you are usually wrong.
Now, you are doubting your own original words and offering your own opinion once again. She was using the guy as her delivery boy. I saw it for myself. That's why I wrote this post. If it was like you are trying to insinuate, then it wouldn't have mattered.
I've said nothing that contradicts myself. You should go back and read.rascal99v said:You are all over the place contradicting yourself. I've never said all women do it. Hot women use their looks to take advantage of men. Chicks in school do this do guys to help them get good grades. Women get what they want out of men, then after the men provide what they needed, the chicks get rid of them. I've seen them do this stuff. I've heard them laugh about it after they did it. So, I know what some of them do.
This statement, in addition to most of what you were writing, implies that you are saying the vast majority of women do this.rascal99v said:Women use men for their own personal needs. That is their nature.
Once again, go back and read... I didn't deny it. I actually explicitly stated that women like this exist. I denied that the majority of women are like this, which you did claim (whether intentionally or not) to be true.rascal99v said:Why are you trying to deny it?