"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Are you the chump who is being exploited by women?

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Maybe the majority of women if you live in LA or Manhattan. It's a lifestyle to be a b1tch or a d1ck in those places.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Syrio said:
I wasn't there so you're right that I don't actually know - I was speculating. I mean it's possible that she was trying to take advantage of him but I just kind of doubt it. I suspect that your view of the situation was a little biased, but whatever that's besides the point.
Well, when you're only specualting on something you are usually wrong. :yes:

Now, you are doubting your own original words and offering your own opinion once again. She was using the guy as her delivery boy. I saw it for myself. That's why I wrote this post. If it was like you are trying to insinuate, then it wouldn't have mattered.

Syrio said:
Like I said, I definitely agree that some women do what you are saying. In my experience though, the vast majority do not. Is this really so common in your life that you feel it's accurate to believe that all (or even the majority) of women try to take advantage of men by faking sadness or manipulating them in some other way on a regular basis? I guess a lot of women do this sometimes but in my experience this is rarely an issue. If it ever is an issue, it's usually very recognizable and easy to fix.
You are all over the place contradicting yourself. I've never said all women do it. Hot women use their looks to take advantage of men. Chicks in school do this do guys to help them get good grades. Women get what they want out of men, then after the men provide what they needed, the chicks get rid of them. I've seen them do this stuff. I've heard them laugh about it after they did it. So, I know what some of them do. Why are you trying to deny it?


Swampcamel said:
Maybe the majority of women if you live in LA or Manhattan. It's a lifestyle to be a b1tch or a d1ck in those places.
Dude, this will happen in every town or city that has a woman who thinks she is above everybody.


Syrio said:
Then I acknowledged that it is possible that she "used" him but I think you are probably telling a very biased version of the story.

however, suggests that you were referring to at least the majority of women

I've said nothing that contradicts myself. You should go back and read.

This statement, in addition to most of what you were writing, implies that you are saying the vast majority of women do this.

It's not like the majority of women are maliciously exploiting men all the time.
You argue in circles and contradict yourself. You doubt that it happens, then you semi agree with me, then you go back to your original opinion.

You weren't there, so you can't offer your own opinion. The dude obviously thought he was going to get her number because of the look on his face after she just blew him off. He looked like a chump.

Hot women will have exploited a man sometime in their life. Even women who aren't attactive will try to do it at some point. Any person man or woman who has something to gain can exploit someone. Wake up. Now you throw in the word "maliciously" LOL. :crackup:
 
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rascal99v said:
Well, when you're only specualting on something you are usually wrong.

Now, you are doubting your own original words and offering your own opinion once again. She was using the guy as her delivery boy. I saw it for myself. That's why I wrote this post. If it was like you are trying to insinuate, then it wouldn't have mattered.
I never said anything that implied I was doubting my original words. Go back and read dude, I said that it is rude to refuse a request like that. Then I acknowledged that it is possible that she "used" him but I think you are probably telling a very biased version of the story.

rascal99v said:
You are all over the place contradicting yourself. I've never said all women do it. Hot women use their looks to take advantage of men. Chicks in school do this do guys to help them get good grades. Women get what they want out of men, then after the men provide what they needed, the chicks get rid of them. I've seen them do this stuff. I've heard them laugh about it after they did it. So, I know what some of them do.
I've said nothing that contradicts myself. You should go back and read.

It is true that you did not directly say "all women". The way you wrote your original post, however, suggests that you were referring to at least the majority of women, if not all women. Maybe you didn't mean to write it that way, but that is what you wrote.
rascal99v said:
Women use men for their own personal needs. That is their nature.
This statement, in addition to most of what you were writing, implies that you are saying the vast majority of women do this.

rascal99v said:
Why are you trying to deny it?
Once again, go back and read... I didn't deny it. I actually explicitly stated that women like this exist. I denied that the majority of women are like this, which you did claim (whether intentionally or not) to be true.

All I was saying here is that, in my opinion, you are making this situation out to be worse than it actually is. It's not like the majority of women are maliciously exploiting men all the time, like you seem to be trying to say.
 
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