davelmn2003
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how long has it been and how long do you plan on keeping them--and why?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Are you still keeping your ex's photos?
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Chewy Bagel
Senior Don Juan
I keep all ex's photos. Not all memories are bad with my ex's. I'll keep them around in a shoebox indefinitely.
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Senior Don Juan
toss em they make me cry 
Keep the long term ones... throw away the others. 10 years from now you're going to remember one of them and want to see a picture and laugh about a good time you remembered with them. It's a healthy thing to do and you'll regret it later on in life if you throw them all away.
I keep them. Plus I have a digital cam, so really I have tons and tons of pics of different people I hang out with, go places with, etc. It's good stuff, and doesn't really take up any space.
You will probably regret it if you get rid of all them.
You will probably regret it if you get rid of all them.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
NewMan
Master Don Juan
I keep them - the hot ones anyway. I like to look back on the fun times - plus, this is something I do as a bonus.....
If I'm after a chick - and this is a chick I'm not serious with and just want to bang, I could even be banging them already - I leave a picture of one of my hot ex's out - strategically placed. This is the deal...
The girl see's the photo, see's how hot the chick is, and then she knows the following:-
1) I've banged hot chicks - chicks that are hotter than her.
2) I've got to have something going for me (in case she's on the fence)
3) when we do Fvck - she's going to try a little harder. Remember, she knows I've been Fvcking hot chicks - and she knows that she's not as hot as them, so she's going to try and make up for it.
I also keep a pair of underwear from some of my ex F'vcks. If the chick is inquisitive I bring them out - it's a fun game to play - and it's a good line to use when I bring a chick back....
"Hey, I want to keep your panties when were done - to add to my collection"
They don't know if I'm fvcking with them or not.
OIf course they are all G-strings - they rock.
If I'm after a chick - and this is a chick I'm not serious with and just want to bang, I could even be banging them already - I leave a picture of one of my hot ex's out - strategically placed. This is the deal...
The girl see's the photo, see's how hot the chick is, and then she knows the following:-
1) I've banged hot chicks - chicks that are hotter than her.
2) I've got to have something going for me (in case she's on the fence)
3) when we do Fvck - she's going to try a little harder. Remember, she knows I've been Fvcking hot chicks - and she knows that she's not as hot as them, so she's going to try and make up for it.
I also keep a pair of underwear from some of my ex F'vcks. If the chick is inquisitive I bring them out - it's a fun game to play - and it's a good line to use when I bring a chick back....
"Hey, I want to keep your panties when were done - to add to my collection"
They don't know if I'm fvcking with them or not.
OIf course they are all G-strings - they rock.
myfriendblu
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Good stuff newman, I agree. Industry is right, its good to have photos. You will be kicking yourself is ya didn't keep them. I didn't keep many photos of my highschool days, and i definitely regret that bigtime.
MisterAl
Don Juan
My best friend kept all his nude photos and sex videos of his old girlfriend. Well, the current live-in GF just found them the other day while unpacking from a move.
Oooooooooooooooooooooohh. Damn!
Oooooooooooooooooooooohh. Damn!
Oscar Wilde
Master Don Juan
rotfl - what happened?
I keep most of mine because if the girl should become famous, or make it big in film, music, or whatever. You can sell them to the Enquirer for millions and make her life miserable in the process.
That is, if you wanted to be really nasty.
http://stacks.msnbc.com/local/wncn/a1320512.asp?cp1=1
That is, if you wanted to be really nasty.
http://stacks.msnbc.com/local/wncn/a1320512.asp?cp1=1
Yeah. I do. Reminds me of the good times...
How about phone #'s in your cell phone. Do you delete them when it's over?
I don't. It's the caller ID thing. I want to know whose calling so I can (or not) pick up...
"Oh...I called your # by accident..."
Yeah, right...
How about phone #'s in your cell phone. Do you delete them when it's over?
I don't. It's the caller ID thing. I want to know whose calling so I can (or not) pick up...
"Oh...I called your # by accident..."
Yeah, right...
InLawsHateMe
Master Don Juan
Out with yesterday's trash! Sometimes I get asked that question by the ladies, and I say that.. I also say, if you get too fat, your picture will join them.
ZeeOwl
Senior Don Juan
I've kept them. All except the two last ones, because I never had any pictures of them (don't have a camera anymore). They're in my albums, along with all my other photos. I agree with some of the other guys here. It's nice to remember good times, even after a relationship has gone sour.
And when my ex-wife left, she left the box containing all the nude pics I had taken of her. Said she didn't want them. I think she was hoping I'd look at them afterwards, and regret having asked her to leave. She knew I had the hots for her, even if she isn't that good looking (objectively).
And when my ex-wife left, she left the box containing all the nude pics I had taken of her. Said she didn't want them. I think she was hoping I'd look at them afterwards, and regret having asked her to leave.
She knew I had the hots for her, even if she isn't that good looking (objectively).PRMoon
Master Don Juan
I don't have ANY photos around my place. Not just exes photos I dont' have pictures at all. I hate them because it makes me dwell on the past instead of looking toward the all important and ever deminshing future. Never look back on past actions unless its to learn from them but reminiscing gets you no where.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
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Senior Don Juan
Wise words guys, it is much easier to just get rid of them bro, it sucks but it has to be done. I still feel ****ty when i see certain things that remind me of good times me and my last gf had so pictures would just be too much... and as for those who want to "remember the good times" those are the times that make me feel worse about the whole situation. I'd rather just remember the huge fight and break up and look to the future.