"are You Single?"

[KneghtRyder]

over the past few days, I 've done tens of "Are You Single ? "

NOT ONE HAS said , they are SINGLE..


Are SOME of them lying or are ALOT of girls Already hooked up ??

ITs Just a convienent Line to USe, when you stop someone in the halls or in the malls...to be direct..


WHat do yOU THINK ? Should I not use this line anymore ? Whats better

 

[itishe]

You're attacking it like you want to hook up. You must approach like a normal guy and quit giving them an excuse to say they're single.

 

[KneghtRyder]

You're attacking it like you want to hook up. You must approach like a normal guy and quit giving them an excuse to say they're single.

thanks, I think I am not going to ask any more, I am just going to keep throwing out their excuses why they can't give me a number...

 

[jamescr73]

you ask them if they are single after you have them naked tearing the sheets off your bed. Like it matters these days anyway.

 

[DJ_in_making]

you ask them if they are single after you have them naked tearing the sheets off your bed. Like it matters these days anyway.

I know right. That's absolutely positively the exact same thing as asking "do you want to go out with me." :flowers:

Its like a double-edged sword, you do it shyly and you look like a desperate AFC, you do it with confidence and you seem like some sleezy player like Quagmire off of family guy.

Never ask. It doesn't matter whether she is or not anyway, most girls only use their relationship status to ward off nice guys..

Kudos for having the balls to use this but trash it.

 

[KneghtRyder]

I know right. That's absolutely positively the exact same thing as asking "do you want to go out with me." :flowers:

Its like a double-edged sword, you do it shyly and you look like a desperate AFC, you do it with confidence and you seem like some sleezy player like Quagmire off of family guy.

Never ask. It doesn't matter whether she is or not anyway, most girls only use their relationship status to ward off nice guys..

Kudos for having the balls to use this but trash it.

Thanks for all your advice...

I think this was a mistake I was making and causing me to drop prematurely alot of potential chances...IF I kept with it, I probabaly will have gotten even some of these chicks who said they weren't single.,.

Well lesson learned and time to move on !

 

[knglerxt]

Never ask. It doesn't matter whether she is or not anyway, most girls only use their relationship status to ward off nice guys..

Those are the types of girls you don't want anything to do with anyway.

 

[Charm]

Its a double edged sword because it sets you up to look bad when you go for the number close.

 

[DJ_in_making]

Those are the types of girls you don't want anything to do with anyway.

It depends, wat exactly ur looking for..

 

[Charm]

A lot of girls throw that question around too! "Do you have a girlfriend?", C&F responses are great but sometimes they persist!

 

[92 GSR-4]

Dude come on. Any time you show too much interest a girl will mention a boyfriend. In the most extreme case (such as you go in "directly" and ask them that very question) they will say yes. Play the game. Don't mention boyfriends. If anything mention the girls that are always coming onto YOU.

If she mentions a boyfriend, change the subject and game on. She's probably letting you know because she knows your interested...and she doesn't want to feel like a slut when she gives into you.

Boyfriends are over-rated anyway!

 

[So pimp its scary]

You ask at the wrong time... if you set things up right, a girl will sometimes even FORGET a boyfriend if you're smooth enough.

 

[sparky1981]

its not really a a dj thing to do but if you want to know i used to use a simple and easy way to find out if a chick had a bf.
It was simply to ask them something like wat she did for a job or wat she liked doing for fun or something that u can run with and then to follow up by asking them wat their b/f thought of that or how they liked it.
If she doesn't have one she will correct you on that almost immediately without thinking.
Use it with care though. It doesn't mean your in and i don't do this anymore either

 

[KneghtRyder]

I guess the lesson is,

You don't want to make it seem directly that you are picking her up ..( slut defense)

You have to be a little subtle and friendly first and then jump to BF from there.

 

[92 GSR-4]

and then to follow up by asking them wat their b/f thought of that or how they liked it.

Which the woman will read as: "do you have a boyfriend? Because I think you probably do and I probably have no chance."

Just game as usual. If she doesn't mention a boyfriend...don't fvck it up and ask! Maybe she wants to hide her bf from you because she's attracted to you.

If she just mentions the bf....forget all about that ba$tard and game on. Girls cheat of bf's all the time. If your game is tight they are just as available as single women.

 

[Pappadapolis]

You should avoid asking questions about if they have anybody. Assume they are all single. Don't approach her thinking, "What do I say?" "It has be perfect...".
Approach women like they are dudes, and fvck what they think.

 

[Zero Hero]

Why do you guys think this worked well for jwhite but not so well for most others so far?