"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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iwanttofight

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I want to know how many of you people are Single or in a relationship. Im in a relationship right now with a women. How do you think this site will help me, if I already have a girl? Do you think my girlfriend has a right to be mad at me if im on this forum? :rolleyes:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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DrPhysique

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This site it just as much about picking up women than keeping them. I think you always need to understand motion. I learned a lot from Pook, but I think another great book is Dating to Relating. You still need to act the same way, whether you are dating or not.

One post that I liked a lot was a post someone talked about controlling your women so that they don't cheat on you. I learned many things about relationships and pick-up here. :)

Anyways, right now I'm single, but I'm in the middle of choosing which girl I want to date.
 

johnm420

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Just became single, but the skills here helped me throughout these past years. I joined this forum when I was in HS and it helped me change for the better! Coming back now to refresh myself on the dating game again.
 

Sofomore

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just broke up a 2 year relationship because i want to be single...no more spark in the relationship but we have lots of mutual friends. pretty ****ing hard to do!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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floydb25

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Agree with Dr... A lot of what you do to pick up women also applies to keeping them. Most folks lose their women because they go against what attracted them in the first place. The only difference is, you have to maintain what you were doing in the beginning - while also giving more as time goes on. People like a challenge, and the feeling that they've earned someone, but there has to be a prize to get. You can't have them chasing you forever - while acting like a selfish prick. They'll get tired of it eventually, and probably hate you for it. This is why a lot of jerks get women, but can't keep them.

I heard someone once use the volume bar as an analogy. You can't raise the volume up all at once (giving too much) - because everyone will get scared away. But you can't keep it on mute (not giving at all), either. Gradually, you raise the volume up, so that no one is overwhelmed or caught off guard... Until you find that right balance. I think this is a perfect summarization of relationships. Little by little...
 

DJLondoner

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Still single. I want to be in the safe zone with my life before advancing... I got too much wackies running around me at the moment.
 
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