Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Are You REALLY and TRULY About This Don Juan Life?

Maximus Rex

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There seems to be a lot of self loathing on the board today. As result, ole Rex is going to start a thread that initially started as a reply on another post. This is a question that we all, (myself included,) have to ask ourselves, are you REALLY, TRULY, SINCRELEY, AND WITH EVERY FIBER OF YOUR BEING about this Don Juan life?

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=2116968#post2116968

Are you really about this life? Seriously, are you just saying this or are you in your heart of hearts, sincerely truly about this pick up artist (or in our case Don Juan,) lifestyle? If so, you need to watch this video, EVERYDAY FOR A MONTH!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uyLsXz_I9lY

You're the guy Jeff is talking about. You want the chicks and you're greatest desire in life is to have women laying on this arm, that arm, on your leg, on every part of your body, trying to bring you to the biggest ecstasy that a man could ever reach in life, (other than checking a big bank roll,) but I have to ask again, are you really and truly about this life. What you're asking for and what you want this going to take work, dedication, and an extraordinary amount of discipline.

I'll ask you again, are you really about that life? The level of expertise you want to achieve will require you being able to endure being insulted, ignored, stood up, lied to, and out-and-out disrespected, my man. Are you willing to endure the learning curve? Is your ego strong enough to withstand, not days, not weeks, but probably months of what seems to be no progress until, one day it just seems to all magically fall together.

When you watch the video, in order to have p*ssy on call, you have to commit to and live this lifestyle EVERY F*CKING DAY! You have to stay in a b*tches face in order to generate the results you want. You say that you want a relationship and b*tches suckin' and f*ckin' you whenever you want, but are you willing and ready to commit yourself and do the things that are necessary to bring those dreams to fruition? In short, are you REALLY about that life?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Mr Wright

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Nope, I have never and will never identify as being a PUA or a Don Juan. I see the whole seduction community as a poisonous environment, which has a lot of advice which can turn you into a complete weirdo when you don't have to. Go out in a top hat and flashing lights and do magic tricks...ring any bells?

Sounds cheesy but I just want to be pretty much the same guy I am today but just better with women, I'm really happy with my life and the whole PUA lifestyle actually doesn't appeal to me that much. I will be around until I get really good, then I'm going to leave and get on with my life with a new skill. I've got the commitment to get good and I've already come a long way so hopefully within 3-4 years, this will be a distant memory.

There are too many distractions, I'm keeping the content I take in to a minimum.
 

SeymourCake

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I don't want to be labeled either. Some of the advice that is given on this forum are psychopathic.
 

VikingKing

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I'm not going label myself. I just want to have a good career and a relatively comfortable life, where I can do what I like. What ever makes me happy.
 

collosuss

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That's a great Question that we all need to ask ourselves On this furom. Cause if you not in it to win it then maybe some people should find another furom cause this isn't for you. ITs time for some major changes in my life, im all in...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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skinnyguy

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I think the frustration on here is a lot of guys take the advice and it doesn't work in real life.

For example they might work out or try different tactics at the club, but they will find that they are still not getting laid.

I personally don't want to be labeled as I think it's a little immature. I like hearing different viewpoints though. I have learned quite a great deal on ss but I also feel that every guy is different.

I would recommend that the guys with a lot of little green squares stop picking on guys who question the ss philosophies. They very well may find that the teachings don't work for them and actually make them more depressed. If thy have their own viewpoint don't dismiss it as you might actually learn something.
 

JoeMarron

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Nah. I don't feel that the effort required is worth the reward. Having a new hot chick in my bed on a regular basis would be nice and all but I simply don't care enough to put in the effort. Besides, I happen to be content with the chick I'm with at the moment and if she keeps behaving herself will be for quite some time. I do enjoy reading and voicing my opinion on this forum however.
 
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