"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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are you reading a lot PUA materials without action

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I read a lot PUA materials , some times I think I have a knowledge of one of them , I was lately in a party and I predicted to my friends some guys and girls interactions and they though I am very successful with women to be able to predict their actions , but the truth , I knew that from the books not from experience .

I want to start hit on girls , but there is always some thing hold me back , was you in the same situation what did you do to start practice what you learned
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It all starts with that one girl. Go up and ask her what's up. I don't care about the outcome, not important. After that you will want to do it more and more just to get better at it.

When you get better at it you will want it twice as much.

Good luck.
 

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bradd80 said:
evan haven't you read anything from reading my posts?? it's not enough to have the knowledge, you have to go out there and actually do it!

Buy some hot new clothes, get a sexy new haircut/cologne, and get out there and meet some hot women!

here's two threads that will help you:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=197705
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=200141

haha yeah i know it's only more reading but it's the type of reading that'll help you transition form recovered afc to pure don juan master!

best of luck, and let us know how it goes!

-bd
thanks for the suggestions , Ive already read your topic until it reached 4 pages :) . you have many practical valid points .
some times we try to fool our selves when we say money doesnt matter , look doesnt matter . but in fact every thing is matter to some extend .
I think you live in Toronto too (according to one of your dates in CT ) . I live here too , and women here dont look for love , they look for established man when they look for BF , and for muscular guy when they want to have fun .
what make me feel good is that a lot of men in the company I work are singles , they are beta but they have money ,looks , and from the same race of Toronto women .
any way I started a program with my self to talk to at least one woman every day ,to get used of talking with women .
 

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I do think it's useful, at least for a person like me with very limited experience. While many people on this forum suggest that it's better not to have a 'playbook' or to follow a routine, for me I think it would be a benefit. Almost like training wheels when you learn to ride a bike. I can abandon that stuff later, but it will help me to get moving.
 
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