"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Are You RAW?

Are you RAW?

  • I <b>ALWAYS</b> use wraps, belts or straps when I lift.

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Skilla_Staz

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Do you use straps/wraps/belt?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Skilla_Staz

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Eh, used the wrong version of the html code. You get the idea.
 

Oxide

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Used to use gloves. They are nice, but once you forget them it sucks major ass to lift those 80-100lbs dumbells. Now I am raw.
 

Skilla_Staz

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I've never used gloves, I don't see the point actually. Protect your hands? Eh, I'll deal with the calluses or whatever they are.
 

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I like my callouses, the barbells/dumbells keep em smooth. I dunno they are just little patches of tougher skin. Plus I have a second job where I have to carry hot stuff and it's nice to have tougher hands.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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simon

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I see so many skinny guys using gloves for barbell curls. They just love to keep their hands soft.
 

Drum&Bass

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I'm helpless without my gloves and a manta ray.

with gloves i don't have to worry about sweat making my grip slippery and i don't have to worry about thin or jaggy textured bars that cause me discomfort (you will always get calouses gloves or no gloves).

A manta ray because i got soft skin so the bar cuts into my back, but it doesn't make anything easier just comfortable and I believe the more comfortable you are working out the better your results will be.

I don't believe in straps or belts though
 

Fortunate_Juan

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I like having a sweaty grip, it keeps things exciting.
 

TyTe`EyEs

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I always wear gloves when I work out. I prefer to keep my blisters to a minimum. I also prefer to use straps when I DL.

I guess that means that I'm not RAW...
 

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I'm considering getting gloves and a belt. The belt just makes things easier when deadlifting I find, and the gloves for pullups/DB rows. It's not my grip that gives in, it's the pain my hands are in... I don't really mind the callouses, it's just the pain hinders my performance.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Skilla_Staz

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Yes, it makes things easier. Which means your core is less involved. Thats why I feel the deadlift is such a great exercise, because it involves your core so much. A belt, to me, takes that aspect out of it.

Cuzza, how is your grip? I don't mean the strength, but how do you grip the bar? On DB Rows, and Pullups, I feel absolutely no pain in my hands...
 

6-heads lewis

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I use straps for deads above 285lbs right now, so I guess thats not RAW... Though I frequently dont cook my eggs, so I guess I eat them RAW...

This is too confusing.

IM RAW YEAH! TESTOSTERONE!!!! KNOCKING FOOLS OUT! BANGING CHICKS WITH NO RUBBER!

OOOHHHHH YEAAAAAAAAHHH!!!! I SERVE IT RAAAAAAW!!!
 

cuzza

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I prefer deadlifting with a belt, I'd rather just do a seperate core exercise and feel better when doing deads.

Erm I vary the grips, sometimes both over sometimes one under and one over. Arms slightly wider than legs...
 

TyTe`EyEs

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6-heads lewis said:
IM RAW YEAH! TESTOSTERONE!!!! KNOCKING FOOLS OUT! BANGING CHICKS WITH NO RUBBER!

OOOHHHHH YEAAAAAAAAHHH!!!! I SERVE IT RAAAAAAW!!!
HAHAHA
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Trojan

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I used to think using gloves were kinda gay but I had to start using them because when I started lifting heavier weight I'd get a pinch nerve feeling in my hand right were the bar lays, and also when I did tri pulldowns(universal machine). Now that I'm finally benching 315lbs I don't know how guys do it without wearing gloves. My friends give me flack for using them but they don't life heavy either. Besides girls used to complain when I had rough hands.
 

Skilla_Staz

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Lotion helps the rough hands. Or if you're not afraid to go a little metrosexual (by wearing gloves to keep your hands soft, thats what you're doing) then a Paraffin dip or whatever it is. I'm thinkin about starting to do one like once a month or something. I heard they leave you soft as f*ck.


And i used to have the pinching feeling, but I started adjusting my hands and movin em around before I got my full grip on there. I haven't had any problems.


I mean hell, I deadlift 365, and don't get that pinching feeling.
 
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