Are you open to married/engaged women?

[RoadKing_Rabbit]

@CornbreadFed @FlexpertHamilton @JohnBee
The point is, a woman will never leave her current partner if she can't monkeybranch.
They won't.
That's why they need to grab the other vine first to embark on the next life with the other guy.

There haven't been, at least in my experience, women who have left their current husbands just because they wanted another man. It's always been a case of cheating and then starting a new relationship. Or coming back to their "hubby" because they didn't like their AP.

Women want to try the other first while they stay with the current one.

Never is a dangerous word. Although I do agree that by and large a woman that is unhappy with her current situation will go out there and potentially cheat if the opportunity presents itself. Even if it doesn't go anywhere. If it DOES go somewhere, the dude could technically be of lesser SMV than you but her perceived value of this 'strange new D' is higher than yours. Perhaps you let too much of the 'game' go.

This is what I keep trying to tell men who are frustrated that they can't understand how a woman can behave certain ways. For one, women aren't men. And two, you cannot stop doing things that drew her to you in the first place. Too many men just give up trying and wonder why they aren't 'getting the goods' no more while someone comes along and gives her a good romp and steals her affections.

In my honest opinion there is something to be said for that. If you leave a Lamborghini on cinder blocks under a tarp in your driveway in the suburbs, how pissed can you honestly be with a thief who steals it one rainy day? You left it out there. Leave a Benelli shotgun propped up against the siding on your porch in the projects. How's that going to go?

I can't be too angry with men who run off and give a lady a bit of adventure. Have I done it myself? Not to my knowledge. I have turned it down if known, but there was a time (before I knew dating single mothers is overwhelmingly not worth the hassle) when a lady told me after her HUSBAND called me that she was still married. Spent an hour and a half on the phone with the guy. He seemed like a cool guy and the biggest damning thing for her is that he wasn't even angry because of how I understood his very valid points. Bummer as I had also developed some mutual affection for her very respectful and attentive children.

Point being, if it's a marriage WITH children, I don't think any good can come from that. Even from the guys I hang out with who have been quite successful in their prowler ways/days, I only heard of a couple times they didn't regret fooling around in a situation like that. Sometimes they felt bad or embarrassed even trying.