"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"Are You Into Asians?"

drak_ool

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what is your stock response when confronted by this question?

My reaction when asked by an Asian girl is usually to laugh it off with a "why would you say that? haha" but some girls are not convinced, especially if they know a thing or two about my past.

If it's a white/non-asian chick asking, I ll straight-up answer "yes, they have really nice pvssies," which immediately makes the girl feel sefl-conscious and many feel the need to prove themselves by taking about how nice/tight their own pvssy is, a subject I love to go into in greater depth :D

While I know that for non-Asians this question is more about curiosity than anything, I also know that for Asian chicks it's a huge turn off if you answer yes or hestitate, as they don't want to think you're trying to get them because of their ethnicity, not because of who they are as a person.

I'd love to hear some of your suggestions on how to answer this trick question...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I love Asian girls. I dunno why, guess I have always been into asian stuff from when I was a kid with animation and all. Asian women I just find super sexy. I really like the culture too.
 

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Spinning Spinning said:
Never had one but plan to ASAP. I've been told Asians are like servants in bed. Is this true?
Sometimes. The Filipina girls I've been with were sooo submissive. I spoke, and they obeyed. I once dated a Vietnamese girl and she had her moments but she could also be really aggressive.

Once you go Asian, you won't go Caucasian...
 

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Never had an Asian chick but I wouldn't mind me some Asian persuasian sensation.

Some of them are hot/sexy as fvck.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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drak_ool

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Leporello said:
Once you go Asian, you won't go Caucasian...
So true! To me it's not just the submissiveness factor, I've had non-asians being my slaves and asians who were very assertive. But it's the actual pvssy... Trust me, it's not a myth, asian girls are much tighter than white chicks, that s a fact and don't let no white girl try to convince you otherwise. ARE there white chicks who are tight as well? sure. But on average Asians take the cake, by far...

Any suggestions on how to tackle the original question though?
 

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Spinning Spinning said:
Never had one but plan to ASAP. I've been told Asians are like servants in bed. Is this true?

Not all of them. Most of the ones I've been with liked to take the lead.
 

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"It's not that I'm into Asian girls as much as Asian girls are into me"

srs, it's like I can be taking a **** and if an asian girl, particularly one raised in the states, is around, she will find me. I actually don't want to date another and there are a couple, unfortunately not hot, after me.
 

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drak_ool said:
what is your stock response when confronted by this question?
How about "I don't know about that, but I'm into you"?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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thanks for the thoughts comote and zekko!

Love that short response, which is all they want to hear about: "i'm into you", should have thought of that one, will def use it now!
 

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Sorry, I'm not racist or anything. I love all kind of girls from white to black and from green to blue.
 

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BigJimbo said:
Why not Orientals? That would be more accurate. Americans should know this. America loves dropping bombs on such people.
No it wouldn't because that only refers to people from Korea, China and Japan. People from South East Asia are not considered Oriental. Moreover, the term Oriental is an offensive term. If you weren't brain damaged you would know this because you are always going on about having one locked up in your semi.
 
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